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Fabio
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Guys, need your help. B)
My eldest son is 8 years old. The behavior was disgusting. It all started when we lived in another city.So many comments i never made him.He threw stones to boy, and hurt the kitten . Behaved become very disgusting. Firstly, i noticed that he provokes people early, pull them out any attention in any way . At f ootball he fights , bullies in school children. He doesn't want teach. Home lessons to do with him is just a quest for survival.I do not understand what happens with my child. In the family the situation has not changed.What can I do???how to change the child's behavior?

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Fabio
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i think that it is definitely your fault that he is doing like this and it would be very difficult for you to change his behaviour. he is not a small child and he understands everything really very well. firstly you have to show him a good example, try not to be rude, be kind and lenient with him and maybe he will understand that he should look and behave like his father. try to show him very bad result of his actions and how it may influence his future life.

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Antonio
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You said that he is your eldest son. That means that you have more children, besided him. So such behaviour can be his way to attract your attention. Just think, may be you spend more time with other kids, paying attention to them and not to your eldest son. May be he misses you or his other father because of lack of attention and care...
Try to teach him that such behaviour is not good, that he should be kinder with animals and other people...Or may be he sees bad attitude to others from you or your husband? So it could be imitation of your behaviour...Just think..

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Fabio
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To overcome a difficult situation good and on time, in the period of 2-3 years, when, according to the observations of psychologists, the frames appear for the first time the provocative behavior of children, we must make a great mental effort. First, strictly to monitor and punish all cases of such fights, the fun, the fighter rests just at the sight of someone's resentment, with full impunity! Once you feel that your child provokes you to specific actions, translate the situation into a playful form. Puts pants on his head, he joked that it is a new fashion and play in it. :dry: :dry: :dry:

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Fabio
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Emotional anger for a child is a difficult and terrible experience. He feels guilty and helpless, showed restraint, can not cope with his feelings: it's scary and frustrating.Actually, to understand the reason why the child does not obey their parents and behave badly not so difficult. B) B) B) Adults, looking at ourselves, realize that, first of all, this is about them and their actions.Most likely, this behavior is the so-called crisis of personality development and touches all spheres of life of the baby :( :( :( Good luck your baby!!!

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Fabio
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I agree with the previous posters that the aggression of your son is completely your fault. And you probably already realize it by yourself. But realizing is not enough, there is a problem which is necessary to be solved. First of all, you need to show love to your child every say. Second of all, you should show him on your own example that aggression did not make any person happy. He does not need to provoke or hurt anyone to be happy and to feel that there is some place for him in the world. And if there is extra aggression, ask him what he thinks about attending boxing section

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Fabio
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Sometimes children are freat manipulators, their behaviour may be the reflexion of their perception of the world and the willing to get attention. Probably your child has some inner feelings concerning the fact that he does not have enough love and attention. Maybe he is jealous, because you pay more attention to your younger children. Everything can be possible. The crucial point here is that you should be patient and express your love to the child more often than you did it before, pay more attention to him, give support. Children do not become agressive because of some other factors, they behave in such a way, because of their treatment inside the family.

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Fabio
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Try not to succumb to provocations, if they relate to family relations of adults.Most likely, this behavior is the so-called crisis of personality development and touches all spheres of life of the baby. During these periods there is a sharp jump in psychological development of the child, he becomes aware of himself alone, trying to figure out purpose in life or their significance for other people. B) B) B) B) Typically, these crises are cyclical in nature and linked to specific stages of a child's life. B) B) B) B)

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Fabio
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You know i think that it is definitely your fault that he is doing like this and it would be very difficult for you to change his behaviour. he is not a small child and he understands everything really very well.
Firstly you have to show him a good example, try not to be rude, be kind and lenient with him and maybe he will understand that he should look and behave like his father.
Try to show him very bad result of his actions and how it may influence his future life.

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Fabio
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Psychologists say that in most cases the child - provocateur knows very well what he is doing. He knows that bringing parents to blows, he would get his...Out, according to experts, one: learn not to react to provocations impulsively, in anger, reaching corporal punishment and use of a system of natural consequences, which does not annoy. To overcome a difficult situation good and on time, in the period of 2-3 years, when, according to the observations of psychologists, the frames appear for the first time the provocative behavior of children, we must make a great mental efforts

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Fabio
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well i dont want to offend you but i think that it is your fault that his behavior is disgusting now. you had to teach him from very young years what is good and waht is bad. and you had to make comments when he makes something bad,and continues do it. you may even punish him. but when he understands that he can do everything and noone will do anything to him he feels free. i think that it will be very diffcult for you to change his behaviour. try to talk to him.

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