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King
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child's lie

what to do if your child lies to you? and why children lie their parents? Because they are afraid that parents will not understand? What it is often happen like this? Are there some methods to avoid such situations, to prevent it and how to show the child real understanding?

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King
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I think that if a child lies, it is his parent's fault. They should build trustworthy relationships with their children from the very beginning. Of course they will still face such situation even having almost perfect relationships, but they will be rarely. Your child should know that you are a friend, someone who can listen and understand.

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Black
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I think that children learn a lot from examples, and if you show him your honesty and sincerety, even when it is easier to lie or to break your promise, you should not do it. He should know that it is better to say a bitter truth then sweet lies. It is not an easy thing, but it is work for both parents.

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Romeo
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Lie is not good especially when children lie. I think you should show somehow the consequences of lie. It may be some story or some show at home where you can show this main idea. And after you can together make a conclusion and to discuss this topic.

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King
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don't lie to your child and be an example of honest relations. it is important to teach your child doesn't lie to you but you can do it in case when you will be always honest with your child.

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Cock
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Depends on age of your kid.How old is your baby?If your baby is still quite small, it is unlikely that he deliberately chose to misrepresent information to mislead you. He fantasizes himself believe his fantasies. His imagination is no more than a truthful fiction.

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Andre
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If the child is lying then you need:to create conditions so that the child trusted you that he was absolutely sure that you are not hurt his feelings and does not make me regret it reveals the secret.
To eliminate physical punishment;
Tell the child about the consequences of lies:
a lie gets in the way of love and trust, hurts relationships between people;
a lie often disclosed;
lie brings relief only for a time;
if you cheat, be prepared for the fact that others may deceive you.
To give the opportunity to feel independent and responsible for their actions.

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King
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Try as often as possible to emphasize how important it is to be honest, in the family circle. Tell your child that you value him for his true stories and not love, when you lie for example, you can say something like: When you're not telling me the truth, I feel very sad and disappointed. Praise your child's honesty when he admits you to his wrongdoing, it is much better to teach your child honesty, than to punish him for minor mistakes. The child should know that will not disappoint you with its honest recognition, but you deserve respect! :)

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Don Adriano
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When your child lies to you, it hurts. As parents, it makes us angry and we take it personally and feel like we can never trust child again.Listen to what is going on "underneath" the lie. One of the most profound shifts in our view of and interaction with children takes place when we realize -- and I mean, truly get -- that they make sense. Consider your child's developmental age. We -- adults and children alike -- grow through ages and stages. As we develop, our understanding and appreciation of fantasy and reality also develop.

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King
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it's true. When the child is lying their parents, very often it is simply afraid to tell the truth. He fears that if he tells the truth, he can get a serious punishment. So, he thinks a lie is much better! And it will not get punished. I think you should talk to your children. They must understand that if they lie, sooner or later you will understand this. And they will get the punishment. But if they tell the truth, you will forgive them halfway. So, it should be much better for them! You have to explain it to your children. If they understand this, you will not have problems more)

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Funnybunny
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Children are always afraid to get a misunderstanding of their parents. So, they really can not lie, not to get some punishment. But parents can always understand the lies. So, it's really bad and failed. You should explain to your children that you will always know when they're lying. So, it fails. And they do not have to repeat it again. In addition, your reaction will be much better if they are telling the truth. And they will not get too heavy a punishment for it! So, they must learn to speak the truth to you all the time! It's really important! B)

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