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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Don’t you think that guys at the gay parties look cutier?
Do you have any theory about straight guys going to the gay parties?

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

I think that it is nothing but a simple curiosity. They never dealt with gay people in everyday life (most of them), they know nothing about such aspect of life. They are just curious about what it is, how it looks like and whether having fun at the party for gay people differs somehow from having fun at the party for straight people. There are different opinions about whether it is good or bad, but I have a neutral opinion. It is neither good nor bad. They just come, see that not so many things differ us from them, satisfy their curiosity and that's all.

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

But to be honest, I cannot say exactly that all straight people who go to gay parties. May be some of them feel something inside their minds, some desire, some feeling. May be they suspect that they are not so straight as they used to think they are :cheer: Some people are born gays, some become them. But we all know that it may be hard to accept this aspect of your personality. They are afraid of confessing themselves who they really are, they are not sure in it, so they go to different gay clubs and parties just to "check" themselves. And sometimes it really turns out that they are gay.

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Some people go to gay clubs because of the same reasons as they go to any other clubs - to listen to music, to have fun, to dance. And being surrounded by gay people does not bother them at all because they consider gay people normally, with no discrimination or judging. Or they just don't care about surrounding, they just want to have some fun and it does not matter for them who is having fun at the same time and in the same room. It is also neither good nor bad, if people like music and general atmosphere in the club, then why not? It's okay.

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

But unfortunately not everything is so positive for us. Often homophobic people go to gay clubs with bad purposes - to hurt us, to laugh at us. Of course, not every straight person who goes to the gay club is homophobic. And going to gay club itself does not meant danger. But if you are gay and you don't hider it, you can deal with homophobic people wherever you go, unfortunately (modern world becomes more and more tolerant to gay people each day, but as long as there are gays, there will be homophobic people too).
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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Don’t you think that guys at the gay parties look cutier?
Do you have any theory about straight guys going to the gay parties?

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Richard
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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Guys at gay parties look cuter because they prepare for it and try their best to look perfect when they go to the party. But the thing is that gay guys do it for other gay guys, so they may look a little bit unusual for straight people. For example, do the make-up or wear some unusual clothes. I don't think that they will seem more attraive in such image in straight people's eyes. So I don't think that, for example, a straight girl comes to the gay party to meet some cute guy. Even if she does, she knows that there is no perspective for her with him.

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

I am a gay and I really like to party in mixed gay parties with girls. I don’t understand such places (no sex, just party places) where girls are not allowed to get in, It’s ridiculous and sometimes it’s a reason for me to not go to such places. I also like to flirt and kiss girls, It’s nothing sexual but I find it funny. That does not mean that I would go to bed with them. I like the openmindness of Berlin. You can be who you want with no labels.For example if you compare Homopatik and Members it will turn out that those are totally different parties…

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Very interesting. I think that it is nothing but a simple curiosity. They never dealt with gay people in everyday life , they know nothing about such aspect of life. They are just curious about what it is, how it looks like and whether having fun at the party for gay people differs somehow from having fun at the party for straight people. There are different opinions about whether it is good or bad, but I have a neutral opinion. It is neither good nor bad. They just come, see that not so many things differ us from them, satisfy their curiosity and that's all.

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Ben29
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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

Actually, I didn't understand your question. Are you asking about straight girls, guys, or both of them?! I attend gay parties rarely, but when I did it, I have never met there straight people. Or maybe I couldn't identify them. As for me, I don't see the reason of their visits on "our" territory.

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Why Do Straight Girls Go To Gay Parties ??????

There are a lot of arguments. They’re not letting women in so don’t bother queueing,” somebody told me a few months ago while I stood in line to get into a gay party. I was in fact going there to meet my best friend who happens to be gay and I was a little bit disappointed to find out that I did get rejected first – I ended up getting in in the end but that’s another story. Some of you might be wondering why a girl would want to go to a gay party, though. To be honest, this is a question I had never asked myself before. I have been going to ‘gay parties’ for as long as I can remember, most of the time simply because my friends were going and wanted me around. However, I will try to answer it without sounding obnoxious. I believe I am an open-minded human being and I hope I don’t make too many faux-pas while sharing my two cents on this topic. When googling “straight girls gay parties”, all I could find were countless articles written by gay guys begging straight girls to either avoid going to gay bars and clubs or to behave and stop ruining everyone’s night. Seems obvious, in a way. Nobody wants a large group of drunk girls yelling at each other while you’re trying to sweet talk your way into a hot guy’s bed. However, that’s equally true for any kind of party.

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