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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

Adoption is a good method to become parents, there are so many children which need our love, which need loving family and support, each child deserves to be love and to have family but what about teenagers? Is it harder to cope with teenager?

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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

of course depends on child, on child’s character, children are different and sometimes to cope with a child who is 7 years old can be more difficult than to cope with teen at 14 years old.

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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

Unfortunately it is true that it is more difficult to cope with teens, think it is because they are have formed personality already and they have their own view to everything what is going on around them.

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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

I also have the same thoughts, they are children who had a lot of troubles during their life and they were forced to live in specific conditions and these conditions had some impact into children’s psychical condition and their acceptance of the world.

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Dean_D
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And it is not surprise as for me because all of us feel the influence of the atmosphere where we live and it is normal that those conditions made some “marks” at them.

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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

is these “marks” are always bad? Are they still waiting for family and parents at the age of 13-14? Or at this age they already don’t need this love and care and because of that they reject love and support?

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Dean_D
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Sometimes it really can be like this, child think that whole life he/she live without family and now you came and start to teach him/her how to live, how to love, how to think. In majority of cases they reject your attempts to help.

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Dean_D
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they don’t accept it like help, they accept it like attempt to change them, to change their world which they built after all these years of being alone, it is their castle and they don’t want to let you came in.

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Dean_D
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When you whole life is alone and don’t receive needed love and care at the age when you need it most of all with time you lose this desire to be loved by some people and start to build a wall around your personality.

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Dean_D
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But children are so different, I agree that there are cases as you described, there are children that don’t want to have family any more but also there are children which are waiting for their parents even when they are 17.

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Dean_D
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Adopt a teenager

think for children at 17 it is important to find a house and to take a lucky ticket for future, they need to receive good education and help from experienced people (parents) who will show them the way where to move further.

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