Many parents feel stressed by their teenager’s behaviour, and worry about whether it is normal. We look at changes children go through in their teenage years, and how to deal with the effects of bad teenage behaviour. Teenagers can challenge even the calmest of parents. When you have further pressures in your life, such as other children, work, relationships, family commitments, illness, it can feel as though your teenager is going to push you over the edge.
It's only for you to decide the age and gender of your future kid,if you want to go the adoption way (well,anyway it's for you to do that)-no matter what will you decide,there will be another possibility for a kid who has nothing,to have a presumably happy and loving family,and an opportunity to live a better life.Many people think that to adopt a teenager is a big problem,as they are oftenly uncontrollable and all that in their deeds.It's a big mistake to think that way-not all of them are that type,and even those who are just need some wormth,love and understanding,that's that.So,you can bravely go and adopt a teenager,who'll touch your heart and soul in some way-he will be thankful for the opportunity to have a real family for sure.
To tell the truth I think it will be really difficult to adopt a teenager. Of course, I can not talk about it 100 percent. But in any case, remember, when you were all teenagers. Probably each of us to do some stupid things, for which we were punished by our parents. In addition, this is the age when we get too many bad things. Teenagers are starting to become adults in this age. But they still do not understand many things. Therefore, it can be really hard to deal with them. But in any case, you can try. In addition, I can not argue my words 100 percent. I'm just saying things that I know at least a little. In addition, it depends on the teenager. Maybe you can do some teen happiest in the world! Because you're going to give it to the family! Every child dreams about good family.
Orphans from among adolescents most often take care of people who are their relatives. According to statistics, this is almost the only reason for adoption of "adult orphans". "A teenager can not be remade," many potential adoptive parents believe, making a choice in favor of the adoption of the baby.I think there is a double mistake here. Many character traits in the adolescent have undoubtedly already developed, but such habits and features that I would like to keep But an orphaned teenager is very flexible, he is accustomed to adapt himself - otherwise it is difficult to survive.If he has an inquisitive mind, he will be able to absorb and adopt the habits and attitudes that you want him to convey.The motivation here will be higher , and the speed of synthesis is faster than in ordinary families with a measured lifestyle, so do not be afraid
i think adopting a teenager is very hard. Because you adopt adult person, with stated character. It is really hard to get education to adult child. You need to understand, that it is big responsible. Yoi should give teenager much more attention, because teenager can take offence for the first time for simple and common things. So you should think firstly about it
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