What do you think of adoption? Is it a good way if you both want to become parents? Is it something you would do with no doubts or you still afraid to take a child, who is not genetically yours?
I think that any way to have a child, to realize your dream in real, to become happy in a full family is good, no matter is it surrogacy or adoption. There are a lof of children who will stay with no family warmth and parent's love, so why not to make at least one or two happy, to make them feel your love? I think it is a great chance!
Of course it is good , why not? You will become a father, you will have a real family and your child will raise in a family full of love and care. What can be better? I think that adoption is a great chance for us and children to become really happy!
your heart will tell you whether it is your way or not. If you both want to become parents you both should be ready to support each other on this uneasy and long way. You should be ready to face with problems and to solve them. you should be sure in your strength to go till the end.
I think that the idea of adoption is wonderful. I don't think it always works out as it should, but I really admire people who adopt children, especially those who adopt older children or ones with special needs. If you can give these children all the love and care that they need for the rest of your lives, go for it!
The adoption does not come immediately.You need to adapt to the child and that the child adapt to you.At first it will be difficult,but then you adapt to him.Because your side is such a sweet and cute kid :lol:
Adoption is a good way to do one child happy. but it's really difficult especially it child is not infant, and understand everything. He/she needs a time to belive and trust you, to accustom that he is not one and has a family, to live within principals and rules of the family
I will not be afraid of it because it's a stupid reason to give up the opportunity to have a child and a good family! In addition, you must think that you have the opportunity to give the family for the child who dreams about it more than anything in this world! He did not dream of being rich, or something else. He just wants to have a family because his family parents abandoned him. You have the opportunity to change the fate of your child for the better. And this is really a good deal! In addition, you have the opportunity to give him a good education and a better life! So, I think that the adoption - is a really good side. In addition, you embody your wish - to have a child. So, this is the way in which all can be really happy! So not take too long for this). :P
Adoption FROM 1 YEAR TO 3 YEARS
Pros: visible features of appearance, can accurately determine the condition of the child, to notice the pathology of development;you can pick up the child,
externally similar to one of the parents; the child is malleable to external influences, so you can effectively influence the development of intelligence and shit
nature; the child begins to talk, speech, peculiar and amusing; a lot of moves, interested in others.this is the most attractive
age, causing tenderness, admiration, positive emotions.
Cons: the child does not immediately come into contact with strangers, he doesn't like changes in daily routine, he is watchful
to other people; you need a lot of attention given to the care of the child, no time for yourself and other family members — everything is movable
and inquisitive; child prone to various diseases: colds, infections. But keep in mind that your one desire is not enough.
Child adoption can be one of the most rewarding aspects of life for both you and your child. It really is wonderful and amazing to open your heart and home to a child that did not come from your womb, but you're willing to love and nurture her just the same. Many moms are grateful for the opportunity they've had to adopt, especially when it saved a child from a physical or emotionally dangerous situation. There are many children out there in need of a good home, and there are many reasons why child adoption may be right for you.Don't consider child adoption because it's trendy or because you need something to salvage your marital relationship. These are wrong reasons to adopt a child, and you may end up ruining a child's life. I think that adoption is even better.
I think that all the children deserve having loving and caring families. All the children are born to be loved. Many of people are afraid of adoption because they don't want to bring up a child of an alcoholic or a drug taker. They don't want such bad habits to transform on their children through the mechanism of genetics. Of course, genetics increases the risk. But right upbringing, eenough loving, infusing right moral values in the child's mind will protect him or her from all the possible dangers. Most children who grew up in orphanages and had no parents often don't understand what love is because they have never felt that they are loved. It is a rather difficult task to teach an adopted child to give and to receive love, but if you want it, you will do it.
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