There is no need in teaching children to love, they know it and understand it much better than most adults do. What is important is to teach your adopted child to trust you in part and people in general. Because if the child's biological parents were drug or alcohol addicted, immoral, if they were violent morally and physically to the child, then the child will consider each adult as a possible danger and it will be not so easy to make the child understand that the world is not dangerous and adults are not bad. At least not all of them. And there is no need for the child to protect himself\herself from you because now you are the one who will protect him or her from the rest of the world. The child will not understand it immediately, so be patient. And love, love with all your heart.
I want to say that surrogacy is the best variant because this child will be yours, he will look like you and you will be a real father for him. But addoption is also good variant. Because it is the cance to make this world better and make one child happy. You can help the society when you adopt the child. You chose the best destiny for such children. And i think that is so good. In our time many peple chose exactly adoption. Espessially you can see such situation in the life of different famous people. They have a lot of money and they want to help children find the best family for them. I think that it is very nice.
I think it depends only on you and your partner. There is a very good thing for you to give happiness and love to an orphan. In addition you may do it without doubt. How do you feel? There are people who can't fight themselves and can't make themselves to love such kids. If you feel you can, please make happy at least one miserable baby.
As for me I will not be afraid of it because it's a stupid reason to give up the opportunity to have a child and a good family! In addition, you must think that you have the opportunity to give the family for the child who dreams about it more than anything in this world! He did not dream of being rich, or something else. He just wants to have a family because his family parents abandoned him. You have the opportunity to change the fate of your child for the better. And this is really a good deal! In addition, you have the opportunity to give him a good education and a better life! So, I think that the adoption - is a really good side. In addition, you embody your wish - to have a child.
You’re thinking about adopting a baby here in the U.S. In the adoption world, adopting a baby is called “Domestic Infant Adoption.” Adding a baby is a beautiful and life-expanding way to build your family. Sometimes, however, adopting a baby can seem like a pretty overwhelming process. That’s why we’ve put together this slideshow for you about baby adoption. Adopting a baby is something YOU can do. Every baby deserves a loving home
All the ways possible are good for all of us,but which the exact way you want to go-it's for you to decide.You can go some one way or both of them eventually-there's no big difference.In either case you will make some life happy,if you can and dare.As for us,we decided to go with an adoption way with our first one-we've adopted a little girl two years ago,and we're living happily ever after. B) But why I've said with our first one?Well,because we're already thinking about the second one to come-this time it will be a boy.At least that's what we are hoping for in order to have some balance in our family.Why hoping?Well,because we want to try a surrogacy way now-and truly hope that it will go alright from the beginning to the very end.
As for me I think that all the children deserve having loving and caring families. All the children are born to be loved. Many of people are afraid of adoption because they don't want to bring up a child of an alcoholic or a drug taker. They don't want such bad habits to transform on their children through the mechanism of genetics. Of course, genetics increases the risk. But right upbringing, eenough loving, infusing right moral values in the child's mind will protect him or her from all the possible dangers. Most children who grew up in orphanages and had no parents often don't understand what love is because they have never felt that they are loved. It is a rather difficult task to teach an adopted child to give and to receive love, but if you want it, you will do it.
Adoption of a child is really a great responsibility, you can even say that this is one of the main choices in life. Before deciding on this, you need to think it over well. In fact, there is nothing so terrible here. The only thing that is alarming is the child's heredity. No matter how hard you try, the parents will not be able to change the nature and character of the child. But do not despair, because you can correct it. I do not see any more minuses, only advantages for both parents and the child. Just imagine how much happiness can you bring to the offended and innocent little creature ?!
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