I think that both have their pros and cons. Everyone should decide with his partner what is better for them, do they have enough money for surrogacy, is it important for them to have genetically their child, etc.
Anyway i believe that the result is the most important thing in such a question. And it is common for both variants - you will be able to become parents. it is the most important. Or maybe any way is good, when the most important is a result. You will have a baby and it is what you were dreaming about, so the way you will realize your dream is not so important.
i have heard that there are many different ways to become a parent but i know only two of them. and i think that they are the best. surrogacy and adoption. i think that the best way of these two is definitely the adoption. as i have said for me surrogacy is something like buying the child. and adoption is great. you help one child to find his house and family and i think that it is really great. what can be better when you see in sad eyes of the child happiness. when i will be ready for the child, i will definitely use it. but now i am even not sure whether i wan to have children. so i do not want to look so far. i hope thati have helped you.
I knoe there are some differens in prise. For those who are unable to have children naturally, there are other ways to start or expand a family. Two of the most common include adoption or surrogacy. The process of surrogacy involves one woman carrying the embryo that develops from a father's sperm and either the surrogate's or the biological mother's egg in order to carry and subsequently birth the child for the couple. Many who are considering the addition of a child to their family will oftentimes compare the financial aspect of surrogacy versus adoption. While it is certainly impossible to put a price tag on obtaining a child, there are certain business aspects of both the adoption and the surrogacy process that must be realistically considered.
It's for each and every one of us to choose,what way is the best for us to go-the adoption or the surrogacy one.If you ask me-both are good,both are great. :) What do you want to have more-just a kid or a kid wth similar looks like yours or your partner's.As to us,it didn't play some big role to both of us.So,with our first one we've decided to go with an adoption.And now we are truly happy,you know-our little daughter is almost 8 years old now,and we love her more than anything in this world.I can't recommend you nothing,cause it's for you to decide,furthermore,with our second one,we've decided to try a surrogacy program.We hope it'll be alright,and some time next year we will be able to welcome our baby at our house.
As for me i thought about it. I do not believe any insurancy companies cover all expenses but it would really be either, If you went adoption then you are helping a child that could end up in foster homes or with a bad family you never know,
If you chose surrogacy its your child and sperm that could be from your other half, and it is just carried by another person. If all your DNA I know they both are very very expensive so im not sure which one would cost more. So if your looking to just be aparent then u could chose either one if you want the child to be your own dna/blood then u would want to go with a surrogacy.It's your choice.
If you want to adopt a child, then everything will be really good! Only this child has blood and gene from other people who have given up on him. You can grow it as you want. You can give education for the child, you can bring him to the right path.
But in any case, when he grows up, he may have the desire to find his real parents. When you use the program for surrogacy - you'll be getting your baby! In addition, the child will have your gene and partly your blood. Of course, it is quite expensive, but in any case, it seems to me - it is really a good option. But I can not impose my opinion to you. I can only share with you my advice
You know maybe i will choose surrogasy. Just because i want to see all the period of pragnancy of a woman who will bring us our baby. I want everything will under my control. Of coursr the main is that my child will look like me or like my husband.
It is very important for me. I want to be a good parent for my baby and i must understand that it is my child. Only main and my sweetheart. I think that surrogacy is the best way to have children for the family of gays. My husband also likes the idea of surrogacy and he supports me in all my decisions.
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