yes you can adopt a child and be happy with your full family. if you don't care on genetical relation then adoption is the best variant for you.
About the only thing I could add would be that adoption should ONLY be arranged when the child already has no parents or other family who can love and care for him/her, or the child is in danger of being abused.
Remember - Adoption is not about finding babies for childless infertile couples. It is not about talking unmarried women into relinquishing their parental rights. It's about finding the right homes for children who already need homes. It should always be done in the most ethical manner possible, in ways that respect and honor the child. Adoption by strangers should always be the last resort, as it has many serious effects on both the child and the natural mother.
remember that you adopt a child not because you want to do some kind of a good act. it is not like this. When you adopt a child you are going to become parents. You should take care about the child, you should have strength and resources to raise a child, you should have a lot of love for the child you adopt. There are difficulties teens which need family but it is not easy for parents to cope with it. I don't know why but many IPs think that they adopt a child and everything will be like in a film, happy family and everything like that. But it is not act of charity it is hard and endless work.
I think that adoption is a generous act. You can make two things in one time - help yourself and help the child. I know that many children who live without love suffer and grow up very quickly, when they have to be children. I am sure that I would like to adopt a child. :kiss:
If to look at it from aside, then there is no doubt that adoption is a very good, kind and noble act. But many potential parents refuse to adopt and don't consider it as a variant. Why does it happen? First of all because of the legal aspect. A lot of documents, a lot of money, a lot of time, you and the child already love each other, but in the end it turns out that because of this or that reason you are not allowed to adopt the child. Maybe because you are gay and the preference is given to a traditional cople, or a country where you adopt a child changes the laws....
adoption is a great way for those of us who cannot afford themselves surrogate motherhood. As for I don’t think that adoption is a good way to have a child because it will be never yours. Your genes will be never transmitted to him. Do you want to have genetically related baby? If yes then adoption is not for you! Of course I think that adoption is a great way to help some child that was abandoned by his own parents. But you never know whose genes were transmitted to your future child. You don’t know if his parents were a good people.
I totally agree with you because I also want to become a father one day but I want to be sure that my child will have good genes and these genes will be mine. You know that genetical relation is very important to any man and I am not an exception. So as for me I don’t think that adoption is so great variant. I consider it as a last variant when nothing else could be done. Maybe it sounds cruel to you but I am against adoption. Yes there are a lot of abandoned children but I am not going to help them and become a father of one of them.
i think that any method of getting a child is very good. i am a fan of surrogacy but adoption is also very good. there are advantages of both them as well as there are lots of drawbacks which should be considered. i know that adoption can be very long and you will need lots of documents for it. you can choose the child which you want and i think it is an advantage. but the child you adopt can have bad genes of his parents and it can influence the child's life much.
I think that adoption is the great way for parents to have children, especially for gay couples. It is a real pity to understand that there are quite many children in the world, who were abandoned by their biological parents. I think that there is no matter what variant to choose whether it is a surrogacy program or adoption, the point is that you will have real happiness to bring up a little miracle, a child. Of course, some people are convinced that adoption is not a good choice, because some children may have "bad genetics", but I do not believe in such things, everything depends on the upbringing.
You know I think that adoption is really a lot of good sides. In addition, you have the amazing ability to change someone's fate for the better. You can fix it completely. In addition, you can give your child what he would want. You can fulfill all his dreams! And it will be really grateful to you. In addition, he will call you father. What could be better? This child did not know about love to you. And you can give it all to him. So you really have to think very well about it. In addition, it is a really good way. And it is much cheaper than the surrogacy program.
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