As for me I am also against taking into consideration the age of your partner. I think it is just wasting of time when you look for a second half will you break up with a good guy when you got to know that he is not of ideal age for you? Who said that marriages should be only between people of the same age, or when one partner is younger or older? And in other cases the marriage then impossible? Think it is rather stupid! Don’t you agree with me? The person himself is important in relationships but not such trifles as age. Stupid, very stupid!!!
for me the age of the person doesnt matter , i think that person of every age can love and can be loved. but if we are talking about my personal experience i have never wanted a partner who is older that i am. i wanted someone who is the same age as i or even younger. and so it happende, my husband is 2 years younger that me. and we have never had difficulties abou it. i think that the difference from 2 to 4 years is the best and can be considered as the perfect age difference.
I don't think think age plays a great role in human's relations. For me expression "Love for all ages" is true, i am sure age does not prevent good attitude to the person. But i also believe that big age difference can also be not good for a couple, because in this case people can say that they look like father and son and it's not so pleasant to hear...
As for me i think that it`s not important for me to find a partner of the exact age. I like men of gifferent ages. Someone thinks men that are over 40 are not attractive, but I strongly feel they are handsome and sexy. Or for example men who are younger are not worse too. You feel that you are wiser and experienced and you can give advice and teach him. But no teenagers of course. I think in this age boys don`t decide exactly that they are gays. They hasitate and scare their feelings and it brings many problems to the relationships.
As for me I don’t think that age plays so important role in life or relationships. You know man can love at any age nd I think it is true. The age difference can be nothing when you have good relationships. I don’t believe that people can be happy together only when they are of the same age. No! I even think that the possibility of happiness and true love is larger when you are of different age. I always was together with guys that are a bit younger than me. I don’t know why but I find common language with younger guys much easier than with older one or of the same age.
I think that love for all ages, but it doesn't mean that men of all ages can attract. When I see 15-year-old boys, I see boys, not men, there is nothing sexual and attractive in them yet. And, by the way, relationships with little boys are immoral and forbidden by law. The same thing is with people who are much older. If a person could be my father (or even grandfather) than what attractivity and sexuality can we talk about? I know that different people have different opinions and there should be no stereotypes in love, so I don't judge anyone.
Also, I think that if your partner is at least a little older than you, it can be very good! It's always great when one of the partners has more experience. In this way your relationship can be stronger!
If your partner has had some mistakes in the past, he would not want to repeat this in the future! The same thing about you. So, do not worry. All this is only for the better! Of course, we have people who gives too large value for the age. But then it's not real feelings. And it is better to find another guy who would really forget about everything, except you!
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