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Peter
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A baby with a friend

You know it looks like co-parenting and nothing more. people do it like this. Sometimes gay and lesbian couples do like this, when leasbian woman carry the baby and than child have to gay famlies and some time live in one family and some time in another one. It is also not bad way out for some couples. At least it is a real chance to become parents. To tell the truth i even don't know how to imagine it? And how you want to inseminate her? Naturally or with a help of artificial insemination? But I slightly can imagine your further life in such conditions. as for me it is not the best idea, sorry.

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Ben29
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A baby with a friend

I think that in this case you should think twice about all the consequences in the future, because your assumption about his friend's future partner will be an obstacle to your child. So, if you have decided to do this, discuss every step of your parenthood in advance to save yourself from surprises in the future.

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Peter
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A baby with a friend

I don't see nothing wrong in this particular case-they are both lonely,they both do want to have a kid and they are real good friends,it all might be great for them and for the kid.What if they won't have any other possibilities in life to do so-they just must to use the one they do have,right?Or how about this-they get together,have a baby,and then their friendship will slowly,but surely grow into something much bigger-a true love?So,I think,it's great for your friends and I wish them best-they're just getting the best they can out of this life.

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A baby with a friend

I think that children should be born with love, for love and from love. This is a necessary condition for a child to develop normally - to know that he or she was born not accidentally but because his\her parents love each other and wanted their love to continue even when they are gone. And looking at his\her parents and their relationships a child learns to treat his\her future husband or wife, creating his\her own family and bringing up his\her children. So if parents don't even live together, if they don't love each other and they are not a real family, then I am sorry for that child.

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Floyd
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I think that this theme is

I think that this theme is very interesting and useful for every member of this forum. and you know i also have something to say about this. Children should be born with love, for love and from love. This is a necessary condition for a child to develop normally - to know that he or she was born not accidentally but because his\her parents love each other and wanted their love to continue even when they are gone. And looking at his\her parents and their relationships a child learns to treat his\her future husband or wife, creating his\her own family and bringing up his\her children. So if parents don't even live together, if they don't love each other and they are not a real family, then I am sorry for that child.

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Calvin
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I think that this question is

I think that this question is important for many people here. Well, it is very strange idea, in my opinion. There is no guarantee that your friend will at least see (I don't even talk about living together and bringing up) this child when he or she is born.

And how are they planning to bring up a child if they are not even going to live together? I don't think that one of them will agree with a status of "Sunday parent" (and it will probably have to be a child's father, because the mother should be close to the child 24\7 at least during the breastfeeding period). It is their decision, but if I was them I would never do it.

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