I also can not make it right. Also, I think if you realize you sleep with someone else, and you're trying to hide it from your partner - it really treason. Because you know it all. I do not think we need to continue our relationship with these people. In addition, I have really a lot of friends who have been together for 10 or even 20 years. And they are really happy! None of them did not change each other. And they are completely satisfied with their family and sexual life. I think that if you want freedom, or feel something else, you must tell your partner about it and did not hurt him :huh:
i will never understand why people cheat their partners. if you have made a choice and than decided to cheat your pertner you are unfaithful for yourself in the first turn. if you made choice than follow it.
For me being unfaithful is represented by one simple word - lie. If a person says "Sorry, but I met another person, I love him and it would be better for us to finish our relationships", his partner agrees and they break up, then it is not unfaithfulness - it is letting go.If your partner says something like "What a handsome guy is sitting by the next table" - it is not unfaithfulness, it is a normal quality of every person - to see an attractive person and to admit that this person is attractive. It doesn't mean that he will immediately sit near this guy and try to get acquainted with him.
Well i cant agree with you.I think that veing unfaithfull is connected with having sex with other partnet or even kiss with him.I'll never agrre with that.But of course people cheat for many different reasons and it is not always about sex. Sometime people cheat because they are seeking an emotional connection, trying to deal with a loss or crisis, or seeking an escape. In order to reestablish trust, you need to be certain that the third party is out of the picture. That means asking your partner to break all ties with the person. This severing may be difficult if the third party is a coworker or someone else that your partner sees on a daily basis. It may even be necessary for your partner to seek a new job in order to make sure that there will be no further contact between the two.
Relationship cheating is a very common occurrence. If you haven’t experienced it yet, there’s a good chance you eventually will. I found it difficult to track down good cheating statistics. This seems to be partly because people have a hard time being completely honest, even when surveyed in ways that safeguard their anonymity. There’s still some shame and guilt associated with admitting the truth, even in private. Despite your best efforts, cheating can still occur. You may have control over your part of the commitment, but you don’t control your partner. Your partner remains free to make his/her own choices, including choices that may violate your mutually agreed upon commitment. It happens. The key is to figure out what forms of connection work best for you, and then be true to yourself and honor who you are. It may take some experimentation to discover what’s most important to you, but each new connection will teach you valuable lessons about yourself, even those that end in heartbreak.
As for flirting, it is hard to give an exact answer. When my partner comes somewhere with me and flirts with other guys, even if he does not cheat me, this behavior shows that he either does not respect me enough tio control himself when I am with him or he just wants to attract my attention and to make me jealous. But I am that kind of person who it will never work with. So if I saw my partner flirting with another guy, there definitely would be a huge scandal. But only if I see it with my own eyes. If somebody says that somebody else has seen it, these are gossips and gossips are not worth believing.
I don't think I would forgive cheating. If you cheated, that's mean you don't love. If it is just a kiss, one kiss, and guy really feel sorry about it and he promised that it will never happen again, I think I would forgive, but my trust will be blown. If it is one time sex or relationships with another man then I would not forgive. I don't understand how could you succumb to lust when you have your love, waiting you at home.
Cheating, in my opinion can be both physical and emotional. The key is doing something behind your partner's back. If you have a "secret" friendship with someone of the opposite sex, in my opinion, that's cheating. Obviously, if you're having an form of sex with the opposite sex other than your partner, that's cheating...yes, even kissing. Being in a relationship means being there for each other in every way...physical and emotional. If you're not sharing with your partner on both levels, maybe you're not ready for a committed relationship. Be honest with yourself and your partner and you won't have to worry.
I am not the person that think that cheat can appear in the relationship that is very strong and valuable for both sides of them. But if you want to be safe of thinking bad things you need to interest your partner playing role games and try new things in sex i mean in order to make him stay.
well for me cheating is the worst thing that the second half could ever do and i dont respect people who have their found their love but still look for some new experience ot just sex. for cheating is not only sex, i consider kissing as a cheating too. it is really very offensive when you see your man kissing another one. what can be worse. i think that i would never forgive, although i havent got such experience but when i think about it i become really rude and irritated.
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