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Jonas
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Born or become?

How do you think, are people born gay or become them? Is it physical or psychological factor? What does your personal experience say? How old were you when you understood that you are gay?

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Birdman
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I have read that gays born gays and it is thing which you can't get during life. there is some thing in the organism due to which boys start to see only boys around and they think that it is normal and don't see other ways. I think it is true. I have never imagine myself with girl and I think I was born like gay and I don't regret.

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Peter
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I also think that I was born this way, but I also know people who had relationships with women and even children. And then realized that they are gays.

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Jonas
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It may take time just to confess yourself who you are and to learn to live with it.

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Peter
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As for me, it didn't take any time. I always knew who I am

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Mark
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I believe that you cannot become gay, but you can realize your nature with time, understand yourself better, but I think it is something you are born with, something inside, thing you cannot change. Some of gay guys have or had families, but it is because of two reasons, I think:
1. They tried to go against nature, because of stereotypes, or family will, fear or something else.
2. They are bisexuals and can love both, men and women.
That is my opinion only, I cannot be sure for 100% about others, of course.

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Billy-Bob
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Yes, we have a choice in life, to be ourselves or to conform to someone else’s idea of normality, but being straight, bisexual or gay, or none of these, is a central part of who we are, thanks in part to the DNA we were born with

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Jonas
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I think that people are born gay.It is a psychological factor that is not inherited.I believe that in this fact we are not to blame.I realized that I am a gay when I was 15 years old when i liked my friend :ohmy:

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Jonas
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I was about 18 when i understood that I`m a gay with finality. I liked girls in childhood, and noticed that men attract me when I was 15. Now I think that gays are born gays, because nothing pushed me to be like that.I had no example of gays in my surrounding, nobody suggested me anything.I find out my orientation absolutely occasionaly! I was shoked for little time, because i was brought up to be a normal man with wife and children. Now of course I don`t doubt that i will have a normal family even with children.

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Jonas
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I don't know,it seems to me that one is born and I have some facts.Gays are born, not become," say Gays themselves. But to put an end to the problem of the emergence of same-sex attraction while early. In fact, geneticists are not sitting idly by. They have to think about more important issues, such as finding genes of aging, death, and many other genes important in excess of a gay gene. B) B) B) B) B)
However, this theory is not yet complete, because there is a likelihood that the brains of Gay men have learned to perceive pheromones men with time ;) ;) ;) ;)

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Jonas
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The largest ever study into the existence of a so-called ‘gay gene’, looked at 409 sets of gay brothers in an effort to finally put the debate to rest.I'm personally not so interested in whether cultural influences might make someone gay or straight, but rather 'camp' or 'street'. Sexuality is only one small determinant of the way people behave. Far more worrying is the self-stereotyping behaviour - whether gay or straight - which turns people into cardboard cutouts of societal types.

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