I would to ask you,future parents! :) .Do you want boy or girl?After all, it will be difficult to replace the mother if we will have a daughter...Do you think so too?
for me there is no difference wether my child is boy or girl. the main question is to love, protect and care. If it's a daughter you can't be her mother surelly, but the role of woman in her life can make your mother or sister (for example)
And I recommend don't to choose the gender (if you use surrogacy) because when you want a son for example and all the time you are thinking that you will have a boy and here you find out you will have a girl. It will be difficult to get used to new child's gender.
I think it is not so important. of course there are differencies in upbringing of boys and girls, but in general children need love and care of their parents, and you need to love someone, so they become the same happiness for parents :) Perfect idea is to have both :)
We always talked about a boy with my partner, but adopted a girl. We just understood that we want her to become a part of our family. And now we can not imagine having a boy, I am sure it would be the same if we had a boy, we would think that it is perfect for our family :)
We want to adopt a child, so we have a choice to become parents of a boy or a girl. Surrogacy does not give such an opportunity, but we do not care. we do not want to choose by gender, we think we would love the same a girl or a boy. He/she will be our precious child, so there is no difference. and I think it will not be a proble for a girl to be in such a family as our. Both, boy and girl need mother the same, but we will help her or him with our love to feel no lack of attention.
I do not know for now, but I feel that I would feel better and easier, find a common language better with a boy. Maybe I am mistaken...
I think that boys need mother the same, like girls. Of course there are differencies, but your child would not feel any problems if he would live in a family full of love, respect, care, support, readiness for listen to each other.
I know that we are gays and it`s difficult to get own children, but if you for example have a help of special clinics whom do you want to have more girl or boy? I have always wanted a sister, I think little girls are so cute, so now I want a daughter..) Of course only the nature decide who will be born in this world and I will be happy if I will have a son. Are there men who don`t want to have children at all or want to bring up only a son? :)
In any case, I want to have a boy) I do not know, I have nothing against the girl. But I really want to have a son) It's just like in my childhood. I'll try to give him all that I di not get during my childhood. I will try to make his life much better and easier than I had in my life. I want to help him in every way, love him and protect! So, I really want to be a dad for my son) In addition, I will be able to give him as much as I can in this life! I will share my experience with him. And I'm going to share my joy with him every day) By the way my partner also want to have a boy :side:
I want to have a daughter) Maybe I'll have two children. But most of all I want to have a daughter) I do not know the reason of my desires, but when I imagine that I would raise a girl - my heart sings! It's really great! And I enjoy my thoughts in these moments. So, when I will be able to have children, I will choose the girl. In addition, I want to use adoption. So it's a really good way to have children. But who knows, maybe I'll find my partner very soon, and it will want to use the surrogacy program. So, we'll see. In any case, I really want to have kids! ;)
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