In my opinion most gay couples prefer to have sons just because of their own fears not to understand the girl and not to find common language with her. But I also know many fathers who dream about having a daughter. Of course, there will be female questions with which your girl will be unable to go to you for advice, but there will be grannies, friends, school teachers and other women in the girl's life to explain her everything. And it does not mean that you cannot be a friend of hers - if you bring her up in the atmosphere of love and trust, she will discuss everything with you.
I don't think so, and actually my choice is daughter. It's not only my choice, it is my genuine desire to have a daughter more than son. People say that men love their daughters more, than sons, is it right as for you? I will be able to provide my baby girl with everything she will need.
It's all on you to decide this one,man-no one can tell you who is better,cause everybody have got their own "better" ways.It's equally wonderful,I think,to have either a boy or a girl.Who you like more?You want somebody to call a son or a daughter?Ask yourselves-the answer is hidden deep inside your heart.And if you're torn apart by the choosing process-why not having both at the same time? ;) Or wait 2 or 3 years and get the opposite sex into your family too. :) We have a daughter,but currently planning to have a boy also some time soon.
i do not know you as a person that is why i can not tell you whom it is better to adopt. all people are different and you have your preferences. personally i like boys more, for me it is easier to come along with them, but i feel uncomfortable while communicate with girls and i think that for us guys it will be harder to communicate with the girl as we do no know how to explain many girl's things, that is why you may have some problems. but there are many men who think that every parent should have the daughter, they are very cute and i think that love their parents more than boys.
I am a father of wonderful son who is 1 year old, and we love him very much :woohoo: I can not say that it is easier to cooperate with him, than if he was a girl...Of course, it's not easy to care a baby, but me and my husband we want to have a daughter very much and we do not think that lack of mother is a big problem, cause i have a nice mother who is happy to help us with kids :P
It is very interesting in my opinion. In any case, I want to have a boy) I do not know, I have nothing against the girl. But I really want to have a son) It's just like in my childhood. I'll try to give him all that I di not get during my childhood. I will try to make his life much better and easier than I had in my life. I want to help him in every way, love him and protect! So, I really want to be a dad for my son) In addition, I will be able to give him as much as I can in this life! I will share my experience with him. And I'm going to share my joy with him every day) By the way my partner also want to have a boy.
As for me I want to have a daughter) Maybe I'll have two children. But most of all I want to have a daughter) I do not know the reason of my desires, but when I imagine that I would raise a girl - my heart sings! It's really great!
And I enjoy my thoughts in these moments. So, when I will be able to have children, I will choose the girl. In addition, I want to use adoption. So it's a really good way to have children. But who knows, maybe I'll find my partner very soon, and it will want to use the surrogacy program. So, we'll see. In any case, I really want to have kids!
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