If you want to have a kid,you have to fully understand that your life will never be the same after that-so,are you ready?A child will need all the time and attention possible from both sides-yours and your partner.It'll be a big change for your lives-but it is the most wonderful change of possible outthere ever.You must be full of love and willing ness to give all of you to your kid-there's no half-stepping possible in this.My life is changed for better in every way now,as we have our little daughter,and we love her so much.
i think that you life changes even before you get the child, it changes form the moment you decide itit becomes really very difficult with all the process of the adoption ir the surrogacy, you want the child and you prepare yourself toit and so that you change your life. but when he appears in your house i think that changes are incredible. you change your timetable, your behaviour and even some your habits. i think that every person changes to the best, although you do not sleep soundly , do not eat well and do not have the free time.
The first year after the birth of a child is a serious test for the pair. Expecting the birth of first child, we mentally prepared to many difficulties: sleepless nights, children's whims and disease, chronic fatigue ... But even the most far-sighted of us not assume that a happy event in the life of couples is often the starting point of its destruction. But despite the fact that you have become fathers, we should not forget that you're a wife, friends, lovers, just close friends. This is a separate and important task - to give each other time and emotions. Start a tradition once a week to keep the child's grandmother or nanny, and by at least a couple of hours to spend together
I want to say thank you for this theme because it is very interesting and useful for me and for every member of this forum i think. iit is important to see the border between reality and dreams.
A lot of future parents dream that everything will be like in film but it will not be like this. It is life, it is reality and often we face with problems. of course, there are a lot of changes in all aspects of your life...you should take care about child, you should buy a lot of special things for child, you can make love in all rooms in the house, you should change your schedule. But I think that it worth to change your life for that.
You know I'm still single, but I really want to have a baby in the near future. So I visited many courses for the future parents. And I really learned a lot of useful information for me. If your relationship is really strong, the child will improve them!
Of course, at first it's hard. Especially waking up at night, and try to understand what happened to your child why he cries? All this is always difficult! But we have to get used to it! And if you're a good parent, you are your child will learn and understand all the factors that cause it to cry. So, it will become much easier!
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