It is definitely for you to decide,what age should be that little wonder,that will soon light up your house and your life.All ages are wonderful,if you ask me,even the teenagers deserve the chance to be adopted,as well as everybody else.If you'll choose a baby girl or boy-get ready for some unslept nights,that just might occur.In order to get away from that,if needed,adopt a kid of middle age,like 4-8 years old.Our baby girl was 6 years old,when she arrived into our home and since then stayed for good as a part of our family.Now,she's 8 and we're all having the time of our lives.Though with a second one we want a baby boy and probably with a help of surrogate mother-we just don't know yet for sure.
You know I think any age can be good. It all depends on your desires. If you want to get baby and educate him, then it is better to take the smallest age. If you do not want to have problems with too little baby, then it is better to take 3-4 years. So, it all depends on your desires and preferences! I think that any child will love you. Because it's really hard to grow up without parents .
So, you also need to understand this very well. But when you take a serious decision to adopt a child, you should be aware of the responsibilities that you take on you! Because even if your relationship will break, or someone of you will leave each other. You must not forget your child. And each of you should continue to take care of it! So you really have to think very well.
The advantage of adopting a newborn baby is that the child is in the family from the first days of life. A strong emotional connection is formed between the child and the parents. But the anxieties of the adoptive parents about the child of infant age are fully justified. It is difficult to assess the appearance, it is impossible to assess the child's intelligence, his character. On the other hand, a child of two years is attractive for adoption for many reasons. Parents find it easier to choose a child of the desired appearance, similar to someone from foster parents. It is already possible to evaluate the character - the child is either quiet and shy, preferring tranquil games, or an active karapuz who does not sit still for a minute. Children at this age begin to talk, they are inquisitive and active, open to communication, copy the behavior of the elders, what causes the universal tenderness and love of adults.
hm, i have never think about this question. i don't know why. i think it is rather important one. and we should think about it, because if we use adoption program we can get child of any age, and it is important to understand it. nut children stay children in any age. of course it is harder to give them education, when they are 10-14 years old. because they have got character and some behavior habits. and there can be different disagreements between you and child. so i think it is better to get a little child, maybe newborn is better, but i think it is so hard to do it. but in general, i will be happy, if i have child of any age, because all children bring happiness in your life.
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