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Antonio
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Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
Children's disobedience

Hello everybody! I want to talk a little about the children, simply because a few months maybe I'll become a father. Now I'm just trying to earn money to order the service surrogate motherhood. I really want to be a father soon. And perhaps as alot of men in my case, I try to be interested in many of the problems that come to the new parents. First of all I want to know your opinion about the children of disobedience. I saw the children of my friends just drove them crazy. Because the main weapon of any child is a loud cry. But this is not the worst. Children also love to use tantrums and whims show. All it really scares me. Let's imagine that I am a child and I am asking you for help, and I try to learn your opinion about the children of disobedience. Will you share your thoughts about it?

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:03
Children's disobedience

You need to pay more attention to your child. Set with the child some rules. He does not distract you when you cook or clean up, but he knows the time (it should be indicated in an accessible form for the baby when all your attention will be focused only on him and he will wait for this time. Sweet communion with his father when father just for him! and he will not yank and distract you every three to five minutes. Well, maybe just at the beginning, when will get used to the new mode of communication. I think it should be very effective when the child is already in the age of reason.

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Antonio
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Children's disobedience

Try to assign some responsibilities to your child. Of course, all this is symbolic, but it is important to him. Well, you're an adult! You're in charge! Then the father will no longer wash your socks, you're an adult, and the chief will do it himself, but also to clean up in his room, as a father does. And do not ask a father, where is your favorite toy, you're an adult, you're in charge, you yourself are responsible for everything. It is important that all of this was said calmly, with humor and love. This will allow your child to feel that he has received a new level in his capabilities.

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Frank
Last seen: 1 year 10 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 15:20
Children's disobedience

Perhaps the reason for disobedience is the desire of the child to take revenge on you. You need to work out a situation where you hurt the child. Most likely this is a recent injury. Children are not able to be stored for a long time offense. Their main stockpile. But the situation it is necessary to work - this is very important! The accumulation of grievances in the future translates into very serious problems and health and psycho-emotional state of the child. Children are very weak mentally. Therefore, some aspects may be offensive to him, even our nervous tone.

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Milton
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Children's disobedience

Another reason is disobedience accumulated negative experience of the child. You need urgently to a psychologist. Independently handle will be very difficult, because it requires systemic therapy with both the parents and the child. Do not neglect the services of a specialist. baby shower is very thin substance. And if we have a toothache, we go to the dentist. After all, no one did not come to mind, to seal the tooth alone. And it is the soul! Incompetence in the soul is much more dangerous incompetence dentist. Therefore, in such situations is better to refer to a child psychologist.

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Johnson
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Children's disobedience

At a certain age period whims and tantrums occur in almost all children. It is difficult to maintain, but your favorite kids did not specifically try to ruin your life and do not wait for it any appropriate (and is not suitable) moment. Just your child gradually becomes an independent person, and such behavior is often the only affordable way to break away from the parent that the child for a long time considered a part of himself. I think that in some situations, you and other parents just have to have patience and wait for some time. All will become normal with time.

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Ismual
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Children's disobedience

Many of the protracted conflicts between parents and children often stem from the parenting mistakes and its various excesses. Anyone familiar with the situation when a naughty child openly challenge by insisting on their desires and completely ignoring all the teachings, exhortations, requests and entreaties ... Of course, education is from birth, when it is necessary to take into account, in which the psychological atmosphere flowed mother's pregnancy was whether it wanted, in what mood awaited the appearance of child into the world.

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Ivaniko
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
Children's disobedience

Parenting begins where born love of parents to children. It can not be reduced to a list of strict rules and prohibitions, often causing the child's stubbornness and disobedience. It is more so that parents learn all their lives, sometimes from their mistakes. It is not enough to receive an appropriate education, even psychological or pedagogical, first of all you need to feel good about the child's soul, and to love him, regardless of his behavior. Our children are very sensitive creatures. And they may even feel our mood. Therefore, many tantrums may be the consequences of our mistakes.

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Alfronto
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Children's disobedience

The children in dire need of a positive perception of their loved ones. Then it is easier to adjust their behavior. Parents need to tell their child, "I love you very much, you're good, but this (specific) behavior I do not like. Let us not do so ..." In everyday life, there is a lot of conflict situations, when the point of view of parents and children are diametrically opposed to their interests lie in different planes, and both sides insist on the subordination of one to another. Our children are young rebels who just hate our parenting techniques. This is the reason tantrums and disobedience.

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Gongorini
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Children's disobedience

The child does not want to bedtime. The clock has long crossed the deadline for "lights out." The parent repeats: "It is time to sleep!" In different variations, with the intonation changes from everyday to calm the terrible shout, but he turned a deaf ear to him and enthusiastically engaged in their own affairs. Dissatisfaction is growing, begin to doubt your own parental authority. Or repeated attempts to feed the son or daughter of semolina (oats / buckwheat / millet) porridge, which ends with promise: "You will not go anywhere until you eat this." Child pointedly turns away and tries to hide. Bottom line: the porridge does not eaten, parent drinking valerian.

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Ignatio
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Children's disobedience

Look at the situation through the eyes of a child: he is absorbed in an interesting exercise, such as glues paper, something to cut with scissors. Suddenly he hears: "Go to sleep," Occupation is in full swing, he can not stop and throw everything in the middle. He wants to play the game. But he was rudely interrupted, not even asked what he was going with this paper to do next. Not fair! The child pulls up to the last. With increasing parental voice in parallel increases the internal resistance of the child, passing into stubbornness. That's all. The conflict is provided.

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