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Birdman
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we with husband are from German, we are in relations for a long time already. My partner (his name is Hans) was married in past and he is a son form the previous marriage. His wife dies from cancer 2 years ago. So, I was allowed to adopt this child. So, we are not in official marriage but live together and grow our son. Sometimes it is difficult to rise a child but I love our son. it is the most valuable person in my life.

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Mark
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That is wonderful that you all have such a good family. You are happy to have full family, to raise a child. Your excperience make me feel like I will be able to create family too, to be in love with my partner, to have children.

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Birdman
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i think it is good chance for you to become a father and you are rather lucky to receive the chance to be a parent. You avoided a lot of problems with adoption itself or with surrogacy. Of course, it is sad that your son's mother die but it is good than he is not alone, he still has good family and loving parents and it is great that you are by his side all the time. wish you and your family all the best!!!

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Rick
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yes, it is really a good chance for me to experience happy parenthood and I am endlessly thankful to God that I have such chance. i have never thought I will have ability to become a father and to have such a great family. And I want to say everybody that we never know what is waiting for us at the corner, so never lose hope!!!

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Lanny
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you are in good situation, you have a full family and you would not forced to go through difficult and expensive procedures to get it. You should be really happy because a lot of same sex couples can only dream about children in their families.

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Alex
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Really good situation for you and your child, who will be able to live in love and care with two daddies. I hope you will always value your family and raise your child in harmony and love. Good luck to you :)

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Don
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You are having a full family and seems like you are happy, satisfied with life. You have everything you need - beloved man near, wonderful son. Maybe someday you will like to have another one child to make your family bigger? :)

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Birdman
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I have a common situation, my partner also have a child from his previous marriage, whom I love very much and consider to be my own child, but unfortunately we have problems in relationships now and it is twice more difficult to me because I can loose not just my love, but a child I considered to be mine too.

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Birdman
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it is good life gave you a chance to have a son. Don't you have troubles with a fact the boy is not your, I mean is not genetically related with you. 7 years old is pretty big boy. Is it easy to set some kind of father-son relations when child understands everything? Sorry for so many questions but I can't understand how the child can be adopted by one more man if you are just in civil relations and are not married? Seems like we should be official family and only than you will be able to adopt a boy and to be his official father, am I right?

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Billy-Bob
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you know, you made a big deal!! this boy has such difficult life, because when such close person died life (especially of child) become a bit empty, and he will feel loss all his life. and when another person who wants to give him love and care appear in his life i think it's like new better period of his life, he will feel himself more comfortable of knowing that at least two person in the world would help him

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Birdman
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Glad you have ability to rise your child. :) :) :) And what is your attitude to the fact that child is not genetically your? do you feel some kind of discomfort or you are ok with it? Do you feel like are are bringing up your own child? Sorry dor so many questions. Probably it is the same situation when the couple is going through surrogacy program and only one partner gives sperm for egg fertilization and as a result only one partner is genetically connected with a child. So, you can imagine that you took part in surrogacy program a few years ago :) it can help if you have some problems with i.

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