we with husband are from German, we are in relations for a long time already. My partner (his name is Hans) was married in past and he is a son form the previous marriage. His wife dies from cancer 2 years ago. So, I was allowed to adopt this child. So, we are not in official marriage but live together and grow our son. Sometimes it is difficult to rise a child but I love our son. it is the most valuable person in my life.