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Peter
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Dating with several guys

I do not see anything bad in dating several people. I think we should learn each other before we start relationships. It is important not to give false hopes to your partners, not to lie and pretend, but if I have nothing serious and I just met them and spend time together, is it so bad?
I was dating with two guys and one of them saw me with another and there was a big problem with shouting and blaming. He was so angry like I am his already and ten children are waiting for me at home. It was a bit strange, after a few dates. Do you think I am wrong? Should I change my way to find a partner and date just one in one moment?

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Mark
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Dating with several guys

You are not bad, I think it is okay when you want to learn guys to understand who is suitable for you. How else we can do it? It is normal to date several guys, if you do not lie to them, if you do not give them false hopes. But after you make your decission you should be sincere to the second one , who will stay alone. Remember about other's feelings and try to respect them.

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Lanny
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Dating with several guys

there are people which are owners and when they spend with you a few hours they think that you are dating, that you are together . Just it is their nature and it is their character. think you are different and there is no need to continue such kind of relations and just leave it now because with time it can be more difficult. it is not your person.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

I do not see anything bad in meeting different people, learning them and enjoying time togeher while you have not done the firnal choice, you do not need to explain anything to anyone or feel guity. It is normal life's situation to be in a search.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

This is normal. But in any case, you have to be sincere with all these guys with whom you want to meet. They need to know that you have a date with a several of guys. Because if you lie to them, some of them would take it in due course, and you can get some problems. In addition, a lie - it's always a very bad thing, especially for beginning a new relationship. So, I advise you to think about this situation again very good! Maybe you'll change your perspective on this situation, who knows? In any case, a date with a couple of guys - it's not for me. But I wish you luck! ;)

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

As long as they know that you aren't dating each one solely, there is nothing wrong with dating two or more guys. It's called playing the field & you stop when you fall in love with someone - not just like someone. Dating is to have fun while learning what you want or don't want in a mate. Don't restrict yourself to one guy unless you have found that you love him. However, as long as you are seeing more than one guy, I would recommend that you not become physically intimate. I would date two guys to know who is better and to compare.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

i like to date with many people. but i can not say that this are relations, no. better to call it evening love. if i don't think that i would have long relation with him i will not meet him second time. this is my politics. but have date with one and tomorrow date with another it's okey for me and for my life. But think before bocame such a person. i'm 34 y.o. and have no constant partner. when i will find him, have no idea :(

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

I was dating this boy. We had sex on our first date and I have been asking him out ever since. We met once every week for dinner. For some reason, he always meets me during weekdays and he has been holding back from sex. Everytime I tryed to ask her out on weekend, he always made up excuses. He claimed that he's not dating anybody else but I don't really trust her. I didn`t want to just be her "Thursday guy". So find someone new. Was he that good that you wanna keep trying? Think about it, there are more males out there that have the same thing shes got, that wont hold back.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 5 months ago
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Dating with several guys

Well, if you want to date with two guys at once, you should at least be honest with them and tell each of them that he is not the only one and you are not sure whether to consider your relationships (yes, dating is already relationships, even if you deny it) are serious and whether you feel anything to him (because if there was feeling to one of those guys, you would never date with any other person except the guy you love. Or at least like). And if both guys you are dating with accept such a variant, then okay. But if yoiou lie them, then relationships (both) are hopeless.

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matthew
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 16:30
Dating with several guys

So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them. They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further. This person is fine, so there's no need to cast around for others, right? Wrong!
While you may need to do a little more leg work, and while it may require going on a lot more dates, it is absolutely worth it to get uncomfortable and to leave your dating comfort zone. It is only by really going out there and looking for someone who excites you that you will find that amazing relationship.

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LittleLion
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Dating with several guys

Use the power of choice.
The most important reason to date multiple people, in my opinion, is that it is the number one best way to really find the person you're looking for. It is the best way to avoid settling for someone who might be nice and fine but not really the best person for you. It is important not to underestimate the power of choice. Get out there and know that an amazing relationship is out there for you, but that you are the one who has to go find it. Finding it means meeting and interacting with as many prospective significant others as possible. Using the power of choice is the key getting what you really want in your dating life. The only way to figure out who and what you truly want in a partner is to date multiple people. Dating more than one person is a good thing and something that should be part of your dating life. It is a great way to really take the time to understand what you want in another person -- and to know when you have found it.

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