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Jonas
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Division of duties

Is there any division of householding duties in your family? For traditional couples it is easier, because there are stereotypes - cooking is a woman's deal, and fixing furniture is a man's deal. But how to divide duties when there are 2 men in family?

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Peter
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Division of duties

Each of you should do what he likes. If one of you likes to cook and the other one doesn't, why to make him, if there is somebody who does it with pleasure

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Jonas
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Division of duties

But what if there is something we both don't like? For example, we both hate doing the washing up. And what should we do?

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Peter
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Division of duties

Make a schedule. For example, you do the washing up on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and he - on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday

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Jonas
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Division of duties

And what about Sundays?

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Nill
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hire a housekeeper and your problem will be sold ;) Just pay her money and she will take all her duties to herself. As for me it is the best solution ever. No need to quarrel because of dirty cups and dust. I think love and relations are more important than dust and garbage. It cost not a lot of money. or you can hire housekeeper for 3 days during the week. It will be cheaper.

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Jonas
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Housekeeper? I didn't think about it. But it is a good idea. Thank you so much!

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Lanny
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As for me there is nothing difficult. I agree with a variant that you just hire housekeeper who will come and clean your house twice a week. At weekends you can go to the market together and buy products for the next week. And that is it... problem is solved. probably it is not a problem it is just some kind of rational approach to the life.

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John
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i don't think that there is a need to devide the duties between partners. one can do something this day and the other the tomorrow. or you can do everything together it even unitiespeople and partners.

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John
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i hate stereotypes and think that there should be no division at all both in traditional couple and gay couple.
you should together decide who will do today washing and who cooking or you can do it together.
i like doing everything together. it makes your relations stronger and thus you can do a lot of things faster.

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Jonas
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i don not have a constant boyfriend now, so i divide my housholding duties between me and me :lol: :lol:
i actually do not do everything by myself, because i have a woman who is coming ones a week and do deep cleaning in my flat. i don't knoe how would i live without her!

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