Everything depends on you and your decision you see? There are some couples who do not see the obvious difference between the official marriage and a civil one. As for me I do not think it is so necessary to get marry. It doesn't change anything except the law question. You relations would not change or become more intimate or you have more passion in the relations. It is only for you. You are those who decide whether to get marry of stay together and live in a civil marriage. For me there is no serious difference. But it's only you who can decide. Ask yourself, what do you really feel and do you really want it?
You know official marriage is a serious and very responsible step, so you should think about it a lot.
Think, whether you are ready for it and if the answer is yes, then of course you should do it. If official marriage is important for you and you think that it makes your love stronger, then you deffinitely should do it first. If he loves you, he will say 'yes' and you will create a very happy family. But before you do it you should understand that a family is not the same as just to date. Family is a hard everyday work. If you are ready for it, get married and be happy.
Some people quite early and easily marry, and other individuals can not easily decide to create a family. If you refer yourself to the second category, it means that you are approaching the creation of a new cell of society with all responsibility and do not want to rush things. However, here, too, it is important not to overdo it with deliberation, but whether you need a wedding. Otherwise, you can miss the love of your life. Perhaps, you are afraid of changes in your life that will bring with them the entry into a legal marriage. Then you need to focus on the benefits that marital life gives. Believe me, there are almost no minuses. Do not think that, having finished with the bachelor way of life, you are somehow giving up or sacrificing personal freedom. If you competently approach work on relationships, your union will bring you many happy moments.
of course for some people marriage is very important, they think that without it their relations can get over. but i don't agree with it. doesn;t matter married you or nor, the most important is the feelings between you two and your attitude to each other. if you feel comfortable with person, you will live with him forever, and you will not care about your marriage with him, because for you important is to be together. besides, wedding is very expensive holiday. you should think over your costumes, about dishes, about guest whom you will invite. i don't dissuade you, i only tell my opinion to it. only you can decide what to do. if you need wedding, or your partner need it, so do it for him. but you can discuss your wedding, to make it beautiful, but not so expensive in the same time.
I think that this is a crossroad at life, this is where you decide how your life turns. You can choose to be with him, and be a second half to him, change your life, to alter to becoming his spouse. You can live a life of adjustment for this man. Which would be a step down. Or you can take a step up for your sake. Move on in your life breaking this relationship forever. And never return to this situation, wherein you are going to be the second choice and with a man who doesn't love you the way you should be. It will be difficult, for habits and certain things are hard to leave. But you must choose and live with the consequences, whatever you choose.
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