I actively refuse destiny though I cannot disprove it. Destiny implies that our life is pointless. It implies that what we do and what we strive for; our dreams, our hopes and our goals, do not depend on our passion or hard work. I refuse that. I maintain that to gain happiness in life, my actions, my choices, all matter. If I choose to kill a guy, it will not be because it is written in my future. I had a choice whether to kill a person and I believe that my future will be affected by that choice. My choices impact my life and I refuse that the end of my life's story is decided before I live it completely and make my choices in it.
Many individuals believe that before we are born in this complicated world, our destiny was already decided. But that's not true! We people make our own destiny. We have choices in every situation, and the decision is always ours. We wrap up whether we want to be successful, or not. We decide whether we want to change, or not. We choose whether we want to be respected, or not. Everything that happens on our lives isn’t because of destiny. All of the aspects of our lives are because of our decisions, decisions that gradually make up who we really are and where we want to be. All of our friends, our status, our jobs, our reputation, our character are based on our decisions. Therefore, we make our own destiny.
I have two different points of view concerning this question. If to speak about our life in general, our achievements, personal goals and actions, I think that in this case we are the creators of our destine. For example, you have a choice, to go to work and to change the world or just lie in your bed all day long and do nothing. We are those, who create ourselves. But if to speak about meeting the love of our life, I think that destiny is the crucial point here, because for me, love is something like "magic", we can not explain for what traits or peculiarities we love a person. Of course, some people appear in our life just for experience, but some of them touch our heart and soul.
All I believe is that everything is in our hands and we are the only one who is interested in our own lives. I dont think that God exists, as for me it is one more people's addiction to think that some creature which lives in the sky will decide all their problems, and because of that they die homeless and hungry because they do nothing except thinking that someone will help them. Want someone to help you? Do something by yourself for yourself. I think we are those who create our life and our destiny. We do not need to wait for presents from the Universe. We should reach our aims by ourselves and never give up and loose time. It is my opinion.
I think that this situation in our life has got two ends, I mean that it may be double one. I believe in destiny, and really believe that there is a person in this world, who is intended to me. But, at the same time, I believe in our own strength, that we are able to change the direction of our destiny.
I adhere to the fact that each person is given his own destiny. BUT! I refuse such a stereotype that fate can not be changed. I piously believe that destiny has many different options that vary depending on your actions, decisions in each specific situation. As every day something happens to you and you have to constantly think about doing it anyway, and it is up to your actions, from where you turn, right or left, how your fate will change at that moment. But even after that you are able to change destiny, I would say even so - We build our destiny daily and every second! Imagine how many situations you have to constantly decide to make a particular choice and what is the number of fates on this basis?
no, i don't believe in destiny. I think, it was thought up by people, who are losers and who can't get success by their own forces. Destiny is such interesting thing. I have got boyfriend, we were friends for one year, before we started our relations. But i don't think, that this is destiny, i think this is us. It all about us, we make our relations alive. Don't you agree with me?
I want to say that i think that everything depends on the situation and on us, we should understand that everything is in our hands and we make our future with our own hands but when we can't reach some goal we start to calm ourselves down, we think that destiny will do everything for ourselves and we should just seat and wait.
And in some cases it works, sometimes we should calm down, do nothing, just to live and to wait till the suitable moment when we will meet our second half. it is just needed to be in right place in right time.
As for me I want to believe that there is such a thing as destiny and fate to make life appear to have a purpose, because before I believed in those 2 concepts there was nothing and it felt lonely.
I find myself asking myself if I'm on the right path and I believe that I am but there are just some things that have me saying otherwise.For example I'm upset with my social/love life and wish that I'm able to connect with people more easily or perhaps learn more self control/will power. Its just so frustrating because I can sense that I'm on the edge of a major breakthrough yet days like today tell me not yet.
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