I have the same situation. About 5 years ago I had the relationship which began quickly and so quickly ended. It was because I fell in love very fast, from the first sight I would even say. But for the person I loved it was just infatuation and we turned out to be quite different. Now I try to communicate with a person for some time, understand his feelings and expectations. My partner and I get to know something new about each other every day, it helps to build our relationships, only strenghten it and I feel that I am becoming to fall in love with this person, even his disadvantages attract me. Of course, falling in love depends on the personal characteristics, I suppose.
You know, love is something much deeper than just an emotion which we feel the first time when we se someone beautiful. Love is discovering the persons's soul, learning him day by day like a new planet. Love is a wisdom to forgive and to be patient., to see not only positive sides of the one you love, but learning to accept his disadvantages without trying to change a person. You love someone when you are not in a perfect mood. You love someone when he is not in a perfect mood. It all does not come for a one day, so I can not say that I fall in love quickly.
I wasn't married yet, and honestly I am not going to do it at this period of my life, even if I had a partner for marriage, but I had serious relationships, and in most cases I felt in love quickly. I am a little bit susceptible for love matters, so it is quite normal for me. Sometimes such susceptibility leads me to bad consequences.
you know, that, people who are constantly falling in love, usually big dreamers and romantics. They tend to invent their own world, and feel comfortable only in their own illusions. It is often insecure people, brutalized, in their view, the real life, causing them anxiety and rejection. And when they meet another love object, they see in front of you is not a real living person, and the embodiment of their own dreams. They empower their "ideal" features invented, but when they find a better love object, and understand that it is not what they dreamed, they are disappointed and go look for another. :side: :side:
It depends on a certain situation,but when I was younger-yeah,it happened pretty fast.As they say,I was young,dumb and full of fun,so I was a truly open dude for almost any relationship-serious or not that serious. :) This period of my life didn't last very long,but in that certain time there've been a couple of dudes,that I've fell in love with damned fast.As I grew older,the speed of this process slowed down,I had to know a person really good first,then the feelings came.Now I'm in love seriously and I think and hope it'll last forever.
You know, I really had such kind of love! That was my first gay. I do remember that I fell for him with the first handshake. He came up and introduced himself, smiled and gave me a hand. It was really a great moment, when you observe each his movement, and notices each smile, the sparkle in the eyes. God, it was unforgettable. I even remember the butterflies in my stomach. Every date and every feeling! That was the first boyfriend, first relations and first love. Guess it is impossible to forget it!
I think that in most relationships, the separation between you and the one you love decreases slowly - at least at first.
As you lower your guard, you realize the two of you are an "us," rather than a "you and me." It's subtle.
You discover each other a bit at a time, and learn to trust one another. That trust evolves into the belief that you belong together, so you stay together. When you fall in love quickly, the walls come down in an instant.
Well, this is an interesting question. It was very interesting to read the opinion of other people on this issue. If to talk about me, then I can not say that it's easy for me to fall in love. I have to spend at least a year with a person so that I do not have any doubts. I do not understand how people admit to each other in love after three days of dating. People very often confuse love and ordinary sympathy, love and ordinary passion. It is important for me to know about a person as much as possible, because I fall in love with his soul and character, and not in appearance. Of course, the first impression is important, but not the most important thing
I want to say that love is something much deeper than just an emotion which we feel the first time when we se someone beautiful. Love is discovering the persons's soul, learning him day by day like a new planet. Love is a wisdom to forgive and to be patient., to see not only positive sides of the one you love, but learning to accept his disadvantages without trying to change a person.
You love someone when you are not in a perfect mood. You love someone when he is not in a perfect mood. It all does not come for a one day, so I cannot say that I fall in love quickly.
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