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Peter
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dreams and reality

a lot of couples are willing to create a family and to have children and they are living in these dreams. And I think that there is a big difference between dreams and reality and sometimes intendant parents are sad when they are face to face with reality.

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Birdman
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yes, it is true, it is important to look in future and to see something more than just tomorrow's day. Reality can be cruel sometimes and parents should be ready for that beforehand. Children it is great but don't forget about reality.

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Lanny
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why people always prepare for something bad. Children it is good and whole life can be good if not to imagine something bad all the time. Yes, bad things happen sometimes but it is not the reason forget all your dreams.

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Rick
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yes, reality is a bit different from dreams. i had a dream to have a child to be a father and to have ability to rise new person. I dreamt that my child will do this and this and in reality child doesn't want to do what i want him to do. And at first it was hard for me but with time you start to understand that you child should live own life and not yours, and since this moment everything started to be on its places.

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Mark
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Of course you would not see in your dreams like a child is getting crazy and rolling everything up and down, jumping on a bed and does not want to eat what you cooked, draw a picture on the wall or spoiled your laptop, you would better imagine you playing games outdoors, laughing, kissing, going somewhere with all your family, but it is life. You will get both sides of it! if you are mature and serious you would understand it , if not- than you are not ready for creating family and raising children.

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Billy-Bob
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i think if they only dream but not do this so they are not ready for being married couple or having a baby. it's better to dream and don't do if you are not ready, than being not ready and do, do everything wrong. let people dream about great future

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Nill
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think it doesn't depend on the fact are you ready or are you not ready for parenthood. Independently from your readiness child will do a lot of stupid things and will cause a lot of troubles, so you just should be ready that your dreams in reality will look in some other way.

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Peter
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dreams and reality

of course, it is very important to live in real life but dreams give us ability to see something better, to believe in the best and dreams help us to set new goals and give us strength to reach these goals.

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Peter
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dreams and reality

Children always disappoint parents because they are not perfect. And who is? And did at least one person in the world turned hir or her parents' expectations into reality? I don't think that such person exists at all. So why to expect too much from a child? Children come to this world to be loved, not to realize our plans! The only thing which parents should expect is to raise up a good person. Not a math genius (isn't it stupid to blame your child for being good in history and literature?) or a successful footballer ("She is a girl, it is bad! But it is not a reason not to teach her play!", as one my relative says), just a good person!

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Peter
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dreams and reality

to have a baby without a vagin is really difficult in our world, but it's possible. and if two men really want to have a baby they will bridge over all difficulties only to hold in their hand a small clew of happiness. yes, it's rally hard and i can say it's really expensive to adopte baby or to have baby through surrogacy but it worth

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Richard
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Parenting consists not only of pleasant moments like singing lullabies to your child or catching him or her when he\she falls down trying to learn to walk. It may be difficult, very difficult. Especially when your child suffers from something. All parents know that when a child suffers, parent suffer 100 times more. But it is still worth it. And if you decide to have a child, you should understand that not everything will be perfect and the reality still will not match with a picture you have drawn in your own head. But this is what all parents live for - to overcome all the troubles together with their children.

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