How do you think can it happen that after you become parents your love will disappear? Can it happen that you will be so busy with child that just stops to pay attention to each other?
Everything can happen and we can’t be sure that everything will be as you wish but it is not a reason to avoid such happiness as becoming parents. Don’t let your fear to prevent you to become a father.
Child it is a big happiness and you should go through a lot of difficulties before you will become parents and these difficulties and child will make your love stronger and your relations should be even closer than before.
yes, it is true difficulties make people’s relations closer but not always, sometimes difficulties can ruin everything and there are chances to ruin everything on the way towards your dream.
if you are long time together you should know your partner, his abilities, his intentions, his reactions and you should see whether he is ready for parenthood or you as a couple need some more time.
Even if you know your partner you don’t know him in such situation as surrogacy program for example or in adoption process, such situations are not usual and you don’t do it every day and it is hard to predict how it will go.
you’ve said as if you decide to go through surrogacy or adoption without previous discussion. It is understandable that you will discuss everything beforehand and each of you will know for himself for what he is ready and for what he is not.
Take it easy, guys. Everything will be ok, when you become parents it doesn’t mean your private life doesn’t exist anymore. Just continue to live as before nut now with a child and everything will be all right.
You say insane things, if you have true love and even decided not only to live together as a couple but decided o create a real full family with a child then what you are talking about.
I just afraid to leave alone, I love him and I am really willing to create a full family, to rise a child together, to have common dinners every day, but I afraid my dreams to be crushed.
Real love never disappears, it only grows. and a common child is the best proof of love that the world have ever known. Common child will not separate you and your partner from each other, your child will make you closer. Of course, if only one parent cares about a child 24\7 and gets so tired that has no ability to pay attention to anything else around him (including the second half) it can break a family. But if you both take equal part in caring about your child and do not forget to remind each other about your love, then there is nothing to worry about.
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