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Ben29
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female and male friends

I have a lot of female friends, girls and ladies who really understand me and support. But i have less male friends. The matter is that it is not easy to find male friends among heterosexual guys, cause they do not respect such men like we are...I know some bisexual and homosexual guys and they are pretty friendly but sometimes i am afraid of them, because when they are drunk they even can not underdstand whom they hug or kiss, so i am afarid that my boyfriend could see their signs of attention...That's why i think that only girls could be best friends for gays. And what about you? Do you have more male or female friends? :huh: :huh: :huh:

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Serq12
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female and male friends

as for me, i have some friends, some of them are women.For me its comfortable to vommunicate with them. We can disscuss different topics, go to reastaurant for dinner, or go to cinema. and i think we can be friends with women, for some reasoms. for example, Gay Man will always be honest with the woman, because she never would be his sexual object or opponent. He will not dismiss the gossip, as some "intimate girlfriend" will not try to fight off a guy friend. He just not interested in it. A friend of the gay adequately assess the appearance of the girl with her to discuss this or that brand of underwear, sincerely advise to buy a dress for a party and it will never ask for this dress reproach, spoiling it or forgetting to return. :silly: :silly:

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Ben29
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female and male friends

I've got friends of both gender. As for me, gender in friendship, or simply in communication is not so important. The principle of choosing friends, or comrades is of my interest to this or that person. If I like to talk with him/her, I will do it without any sexual hints. At this period of my life I have more male fellows.

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Ben29
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female and male friends

So how can you let a guy know you just want to be friends without him thinking you’re secretly looking for something more? “It’s almost impossible to convey with complete certainty to another person that you don’t want something romantic”. The best you can do is to be as clear from the start that you’re looking for a platonic relationship and avoid delivering mixed signals—which is where these some steps come in...Stick to Group Hangs, Keep Your Hands to Yourself, ) :) :)

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Ben29
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female and male friends

I must agree that to get friends among men is much harder than among girls. Well, it's quite understandable we have one rather serious interest in common. We like guys)) We are romantic and sometimes are not so interested in sport as heterosexual men. We are mostly not rude, sensitive and so on. And if to talk about myself, I do have some friends among guys who love girls, but my best friends are either girls or bisexual mates or gay. It's obvious I guess, because we are similar somehow, have similar thoughts so to say. And it must not bother you with whom to make friends. Just live and have fun)

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Ben29
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female and male friends

I have a lot of friends on both sides,and I think that's just wonderful.Cause you know,there not suppose to be any limits for a true communication and friendship.I have a lot of gay friends and a lot of straight guys too,whom I easily can call a friend.Not talking about girls-a bunch of real good female friends in my life,then and now.Susie,Elvira,Jackie-yeah,I'm talking about you,girlies! ;) I love to spend time with them,cause it's always so much fun we have together-shopping,walking,partying all together,we are like a big and happy family,and I admire it!

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Benny
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female and male friends

i think that it really depends on the person.i have lots of friends girls and i think that it is great to have such friends whom you can trust everything and with whom you will easily get along.my best friend is also a girl and she helps me very much. i think that every person can be a good friend but you have to find the person who will suit you better than all other people. for me it is easy to communicate with girls but i also have lots of friends gays and i also think that they are very good friends.

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Ben29
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female and male friends

As for me I have a lot of friends on both sides,and I think that's just wonderful.Cause you know,there not suppose to be any limits for a true communication and friendship.I have a lot of gay friends and a lot of straight guys too,whom I easily can call a friend.Not talking about girls-a bunch of real good female friends in my life,then and now.Susie,Elvira,Jackie-yeah,I'm talking about you,girlies! I love to spend time with them,cause it's always so much fun we have together-shopping,walking,partying all together,we are like a big and happy family,and I admire it.

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Ben29
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female and male friends

I have never thought about this seriously. Everything that happened in my life, I mean all the people I met were met by chance and I never asked myself, why they were of that or this gender. but still I have to admit that before I got married most of my friends were women. Maybe the profession of a fashion designer means something here. But still it’s a fact. Nowadays things changes and my hubby and I have several couples of family friends and they are men. things change with time, i guess)) ;) ;)

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Benny
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i think that we may talk

i think that we may talk about it a lot and for long and i think that  you understand why i am talking like that, i think that of course it is very interesting topic but on the other hand i think that you know that there can be really  a lot  of different points of views and something like that but in general i can tell you that it is life and you shall understand everything. i think that it depends on the person and you have to know it, of course there are people for whom it is normal to be friends with all the people and they do not care whether you are boy or girl but i think that it matters much, for  example i can not be friends with women and i think that you know what i am talking about  and you understand me.

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WilliamLewis
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female and male friends

Among my friends there are both men and women. I have known some of them from childhood. I do not think there is any difference with whom to be friends. Many of my friends did not know for a long time that I was gay, but when I told this news, they still did not leave me. We still have a good relationship and nothing has changed in our relations. They communicate with my partner and also treat him well. There were men who try to communicate with me as little as possible after they found out that I'm gay. But such people do not need to be considered friends. Among the girls, by the way this did not happen. But this does not change the fact that real friends are people whom you simply love and care, no matter what their gender and orientation

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