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Peter
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how do you think is it possible to find some information about sexual orientation when you see the person for the first time? is i possible for the first time to define who is gay, lesbian and hetero? i just have heard some talk between two women and one of them said : "he is gay, it is visible, don't you see that?". So, i wonder what do they see?

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Birdman
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Sometimes yes...
Sometimes there are people which with all their appearance want to say that they are gays or lesbians. I don't think that hetero do something like this but people of sexual minorities do it sometimes. It is some kind of self expression. But also there are those who prefer to keep it in secret and you will never know what sexual orientation he has.

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Lanny
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Sometimes it is really something obvious and sometimes no.
Think it depends on person and is/her desire for other people to know.
As for me I don't show it for everybody and don't cry about it on each corner. It is not my style. i think that it is difficult to tell something like this about me.

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Mark
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Sometimes yes, if the person is trying to demonstrate it. if he is wearing something unusual, behave like a typical gay from movies, but more often it is not possible to guess the orientation of a person just by the appearance, clothes or jests. Maybe I am a bad psychologist, but I can hardly do it.

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Alex
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I think it is not an easy thing, you can not guess if he is in love with woman of man. It is not something written on the face usually, but there are guys who show it with million different ways just to make people pay attention on them. In such a case it becomes obvious.

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Birdman
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it is like you can't identify is person normal or not adequate. I saw a lot of people in my life and have a lot of friends and sometimes I am very surprised by their words and actions because i know them for years but still i don't know them. And for the first time I had one expressions and after more close communication you understand that your first expression is wrong. So, i don't think it is so easy to determine who is who.

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Billy-Bob
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i thinks it's impossible, only if a person don't show it specially, you know such guys with womanish manners, which he does peruliarly...
many of my friends-gays look like an ordinary people, i aslo, and if person doesn't know me well he/she did not guess that i'm gay

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Peter
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I think it is almost impossible, if you do not have anything like gay radar :) Only if a person want to tell you about his orientation you will learn the truth, if he is not going to open this secret, it will remain secret.

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Don
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If he is not mannered guy you will not know if he is a gay or straight. At least I can not guess usually. The same like people can hardly understand anything about me.

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Peter
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I met such guys whos orientation was obvious rarely. Usually I cannot guess if he is a gay or not. Only in case if he is kissing his partner, holding his hand or something like that. The same about me.

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Peter
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I believe that gays can be identified by their appearance and different manners.I always see gay guys,I think we are good visible.Sometimes you can see it by the style of clothing :P

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