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Pablo
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how do you think when people are over 40 are they able to give a newborn enough care and attention? With each year we don't become younger and little child needs a lot of care. Is it a good idea for IPs over 40 to use service of foster care?

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Pablo
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I think 40 years man is not an old man and we can not say he would give less care and attention to his child. Usually he will give even more, because he is more mature and having a child was his serious decission. I think 40 and more is not too big age for becoming parents.

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Black
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I do not think that 40 years old can be an old father for a child. It is not truth. It depends on a man and his life forces, shape, being active and strong. He can have not enough of it even when he is 30.

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Pablo
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I am 37 and my partner is 40, we adopted a girl 2 years ago and now we feel even more forces and life energy then before. We never considered us to be old and now we only enjoy our new time, second childhood together with her.
Foster care is a good idea but not because of age.

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Pablo
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Everything depends on people and their needs and abilities, their desires and wants. If they feel they can take care of a child, if they have forces and desire, then why not.
So it is not an easy question and I do not feel I can give such advices to anyone or decide instead of them.

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Pablo
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Maybe it sounds strange, but I should ask you what is foster care? To be honest I have never heard it before. Will you give me some information? and why you think it is good for those who are over 40?

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Pablo
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[quote="Sam" post=940]Maybe it sounds strange, but I should ask you what is foster care? To be honest I have never heard it before. Will you give me some information? and why you think it is good for those who are over 40?[/quote]
It is okay that you asked, and it is great that we are here to give answers to such questions. So do not worry and always feel free to ask things you want.
Foster care is a system in which a minor has been placed into a ward, group home, or private home of a state-certified caregiver referred to as a "foster parent". The placement of the child is usually arranged through the government or a social-service agency. The institution, group home or foster parent is compensated for expenses

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Don Adriano
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i think that 40 y.o. people are not old, and have enough strength to raise uo children.more, they are much more clever and experienced, so they will not do some mistakes as in 30. they do not want to go to a party everyday (at least they want not so often). they have more responsibility for a little children. and they are get om thier feet in financial meaning and has with this less problems. About foster care, it's all about person's opinion. don't think that age has any connection to this

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Pablo
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I think age has great importance in this. Each of us in 40 years may be as much as we can do in 25 or 30 years. Of course, it all individually. But I think that we will not have problems in this way. I'll be able after 40 years to give the same amount of heat and care for my children, how can I give them right now. So I do not see the problem completely. In addition, with age you get more experience, that will help you cope with your child. So, it is even good results) So do not worry. Just enjoy your life and give your child as much as you can) ;)

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John
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i think it is ok. if you have much energy and money and you are sure that you will be able to take care of your child and provide him with all necessary things then why not to make this important step towards your dream?

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Pablo
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Foster families are not worse than being homeless and living in a tent. What you get for a foster family is more like a mystery bag- you just don't know. They are there to give you a safe place to stay until your parents are in a situation to care for you or there is a family that will want to adopt you. Sometimes the foster family themselves will love you and want to adopt you.
In general, a foster family is like any other family. They have their rules and values, which might be completely different from your own and will take getting used to.
Coming into a foster family home is scary, because you don't know what to expect- being afraid will be normal. You will probably feel a little rebellious at having to follow their rules. There will be consequences for not following rules like any other home- but the family will not emotionally or physically abuse you in any way. Many laws have changed over the years to make sure you are safe in your foster home.

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