You know I totally agree with the previous comment and would like to add a bit. I think that you have some kind of depression. You also have a lot of complexes and you need to get rid of them to live a normal life. Don’t you agree with me? I think you should get rid of your depression and try to go out of the house. Do the jogging every day. There is no need to go somewhere, just run around your house at first. Try to lose kilograms, eat healthily and watch out for portions. Change yourself to achieve the goal. I don’t think if you continue to sit at home with depression you will find the person who will take you as you are.
i dont know even, of course in such situation i will have lots of doubts. but you have to do something. actually i am not a such person that believe all the people especially strange guys from the websites and i think that i will never believe them. of course you may try because it is your chance but you have to be ready that it can be not very successful. if you have the chance the you have check him who he is and what is his past. maybe it will tell much about him.
I don't think that you should trust completely to everything he tells you and shows you in his profile. Of course, it can be true, but it is impossible to prove it and to check it anyhow, so don't create any pictures in your imagination not to get disappointed. As for his words that he likes big guys (I do not say the word 'fat', it is too rude and I don't think that you should talk this way about yourself), it is probably true, because if he did not like big guys, he would not communicate with you after you tell him about that fact that you are big.
i think you do not trust him. all information in his profile may be unreal. in our time its often happens. You know, The image of man on which we stop their attention on the Internet, draws, mostly, our imagination. What he is really unknown, but we already have our "bar" and idea of what it should be. And, of course, on the other side of the monitor just can't sit by a nerd in glasses who're only interested in cockroaches in your aquarium, or blurred housewife with cucumbers on her face! The more illusions, the richer our imagination – the more difficult then to realize that at the "end" of the Internet is the same person as you. Perhaps with stretched knees on the training pants, with a bike instead of a Porsche, with (Oh, the horror) zit on his nose.
Alan, you shouldn't trust all people, because our world is very cruel nowadays. I don't say that nobody could fall in love with you - NO! It's not so, but you shouldn't be open, and honest with people on dating sites, at least at the first time of your communication. First, try to continue your communication on some abstract themes, which may help you to get to know something about this guy much better, than you know him now. Don't try to to build serious relationships at once, because it is impossible for doing, especially in the Internet.
I don't think that it would hurt you to meet him,unless you want to do it at night in some dark and creepy place-he just might be a maniac. :) Man,on the real-until the moment you won't try it,you won't find out.There's just no other way,you understand? ;) Sure,it would be better for you to go out much more often than you do in order to meet somebody real,somebody who you will see right away and make your conclusions.It's for you to decide,but my opinion-go for it,if it's the only way outthere for you now.
The danger of Internet Dating is not only connected with risk just to get in a stupid situation, you know, but also with the unpleasant possibility even harm to your psyche. A blatant invasion of privacy on the websites of Internet Dating and socializing can leave a mark on the soul incurable "victims.
i think that it is very good idea to date the guy from the dating wbsite because he wants to find the couple and i think that he is prepared for the relations. he knows what he looks for and you can be sure that he may be a good partner for you. but you have to be very careful because not all guys at the dating websites are really fair and honest. just communicate with him at first and then you will know what you can expect from him. and i think that yo can have very happy relations.
But I don't think that you should trust completely to everything he tells you and shows you in his profile.
Of course, it can be true, but it is impossible to prove it and to check it anyhow, so don't create any pictures in your imagination not to get disappointed. As for his words that he likes big guys (I do not say the word 'fat', it is too rude and I don't think that you should talk this way about yourself), it is probably true, because if he did not like big guys, he would not communicate with you after you tell him about that fact that you are big.
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