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Guys that aren't in good shape...

Guys that aren't in good shape, what do you wear at beaches or pool parties? Do you wear a shirt? Do you just say fuck it and just take your shirt off. I am not close to being fat but I have manboobs that are only noticeable without a shirt.

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John
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to tell the truth i am in rather good shape but there was time when i was a bit fat...but even in that times i didn't worry about how i look on the beach! i recommend everyone to do the same. but the most important i think is to get fit!and there will be no worries and problems.

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I belong to the people who are never satisfied with their body shape. Now I have a couple of kilos of overweight, I am neither skinny nor too fat. I don't think that my body is perfect. But when I visit some pool party or go to the beach, I don't hide anything. It is a party, where many different kinds of people (either fat or thin) come to have a good time< not Calvin Klein fashion show where everybody comes to admire perfect men bodies. I don't think that all people who go to the beach have perfect bodies, so there is nothing to worry about. I care about my body, but don't have any complexes.

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Richard
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May be I have some complexes because of my body shape. When beach season comes (pool parties are rather rare at the place I live, most of my friends are not so reach people to have pools and to organize pool parties, so the only place where I show my body is a beach) the beach season fever begins - I try all diets which are only possible to find in Internet, I try different kinds of physical activities.... In general, I try my best to look perfectly on the beach. It is hard for me to tell whether these changes are visible from aside, but I feel them and I am proud

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LittleLion
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Most people think I'm skinny. Nope, skinny fat. Gotcha! Hahahahaha (brb never takes off shirt unless there are other out of shape people in the group).

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What to do exercises? Exercises should power and baseline, i.e. all the muscle groups. Scientists have long proven that men have better effect of anaerobic load, i.e. power, than aerobic. So I suggest that you exercise with weights, to put it simply, with the extra weight. Initially the weight is your own body, later, additionally, put on a back a backpack with a weight inside it. The main condition is the load growth. What will it be – you decide. It is possible after a certain period of time to increase the weight, add the number of sets or reps, to complicate the exercise. Weight increase is possible in different ways: ideal – drives from dumbbells or barbells.

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My best beloved fear of being plump appeared when i was in the 7th grade, because since that time i have no been to the beach for 10 years and still i am kinda shy to attend public places , like almost naked , because suggest that my body looks like it has been raped, i just d not know why this comparison i wanted to use,

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Nice jeans (eg Boss in Black) plus polo shirts or other smart casual shirts is a cut above blue jeans and decathlon. I like Gant and Banana Republic too.
I have a couple of casual jackets from Boden
For summer/autumn a few pairs of chinos in different colours and weights
Some decent shoes smarten up everything inc jeans, eg short jodpur / riding boots or even smarter "work shoes" you would wear with your suit. I like Russell and Bromley

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my usual wares are jeans and either northface or superdry t-shirt with scruffy karrimor trainers or timberland boots.If it's not a jeans and t shirt do, then it's smart jeans and a polo top. I have quite a few fat face polo tops..
Now and again if out in the evening with my sweetheart ill wear a short sleaved shirt but thats it Very rarly go any where that requires to be dressed beyond this.
When its cold ill add a fatface huddie it has to be bloody cold before i wear any sort of coat.

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My view is that no matter what your body type is, your best bet when it comes to swimming is to just say "fuck it", take your shirt off, and own it. Confidence (or faked confidence) can definitely mask some body fat in the eyes of those around you. You could be the cool or attractive kind of fat, rather than the icky kind of fat. Just own it. Act like you jam with your shirt off every fucking day. Blend in with the crowd. Leaving your shirt on is a great way to cause people to question "why?" which is the kind of attention you DONT want

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Nicky
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I had the same problem several years ago, that's why i do understand you. But i found a way to solve this problem - i started attending gym and train with private couch. He also tauch me how to eat healthy but nutricious food and to count calories. From that time i forgot how to be shy and I like to put off my shirt when i attend beach or pool parties. I also noticed that many guys look at me with hot eyes, i understand that i became more popular and it increases my self-confidence :P Of course it is pleasant. That is why i advice you to start attending gym and learn everything you eat, it will help you to love yourself more and everything will be fine! Believe me, my friend!

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