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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Have you ever had sex on a first date? Is it normal for you to listen to your desires and heart and find yourself in bed with almost unknown person? I have never had such an experience, maybe I have never felt real passion to someone from the first sight. What about you?

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Don
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Yes, I had such experience and it was not just once. I do not see anything bad in sex on a first date. We are free people, we like each other and we have sparkles between us, so why not? Right?

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Alex
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

No, I have not had sex on a first date, but on a second yes :cheer: I do not think it is important when you decide to go to the next stage and have sex with your partner, if you both want it and get satisfaction.

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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

I had sex on a first date, why not, if we both wanted it and enjoyed it a lot. It did not lead to relationships, but anyway it was good and exciting experience.

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zag
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

No,I have never had sex on a first date.I believe that this is not normal.It is very dirty!!!!!

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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Yes,I had such a case,but I think I did it and it was wrong.After that incident After that incident i was very ashamed and I think I did it out of stupidity.I believe that I behaved as someone who sells love like a prostitute :( :blush: :blush: :blush:

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John
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

i have once the sex on my first date. it was something unbelievable. i felt such a passion and so strong desire to have sex with that guy!mmm...i remeber that passionate night till today.

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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

I have before and I probably will in the future. Why? Because 9 chances out of 10 the people who do have sex on the first date are the ones who find each other physically attractive but emotionally they sucked...so....why waste a good meal. Is it for everyone? No, and that's their perogative.
So long as you're safe and both parties are on the same page, it's all good.That is the bad part that people associate with sex on the first date. They put out thinking their gonna get a call back because they put out. And then they get their feelings hurt like that pathetic waste of a character in the moive' He's Just Not That Into You' (By far, horrible breeder movie!).I don't think there should be a set x amount of dates before one has sex. Everybody is different and when you put two people together it makes the situation unique. It should be bassed on that particular couple and when 'they' feel they're ready.

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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Sometimes it just happens. It depends on the people, the chemistry, the intentions... It's rumored that sex on the first date automaticlly kills the chances of a second date. I'll admit I've had sex on the first date (then again, we had already gotten to know each other over the span of four months before our first date) and it just so happens to be with the person I've been with for a year now. We're happy, and at no point were we too immature to say "You had sex with me on the first date? You're clearly not relationship material".

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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Probably wait past the third, depending on how long you've been hanging out as well as the number of dates. The point is if you're easy, then he won't respect your or feel that you're worth his time. Don't hold out on him, or be a tease, but don't give it up on the first date and expect him to thank you for it either. We guys want to think that we worked for it.
The Time to have sex is ONLY when it is Safe and it feels right for you. Three dates should never mean you put out, in fact you can and many do date for year and feel it is not right to have full sex till marriage - reliefs to both parties usually being considered acceptable but never compulsory

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Peter
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Have you ever had sex on a first date?

Yes, I had it once. It was the most terrible mistake of my life. I was drunk and did not understand what I was doing. When we are drunk, all the most terrible thoughts and desires are set free, including lust. We all know that lust is one of the most dangerous sins, but it lives in every heart. And when it stares us in the face it is not always possible to resist it, even though we know how terrible the consequences may be. And usually the first date ended with sex becomes the last one and a person stays with nothing but guilt and shame for what he has done.

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