Forum topic

35 posts / 0 new
Last post
Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

Well, I'm not a professional in this matter, but in any case, may my advice can help you. “I like a truthful C more than an untruthful A,” you teach the youngster who marks up her real grades. The child who knows her acceptance in the family is not conditional upon performance is less motivated to lie. Avoid judgments like “You’re a liar!” or “Why can’t you ever tell the truth?” Children often use parental labels to define themselves. To them a bad label is better than no label at all. At least “the liar” has an identity. A label can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

Even if my advice will not give you what you are looking for, maybe it will help you find something by yourself for resolving your question. Teaching honesty to kids works better when you use phrases like, “This isn’t like you; you’re usually honest with me.” Don’t ask, “Are you lying?” but rather, “Is that really the truth?” If your child tends to lie, confront him squarely with a misdeed rather than giving him the opportunity to lie. If you don’t want to hear lies, don’t ask questions. If he’s standing in front of the broken cookie jar with telltale crumbs on his hands, it’s ridiculous to ask if he did it. Of course he did it.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

You can always find something that will help you on your own. This is the best way to solve any question! A basic part of teaching honesty to kids is giving them the message, “I expect you to tell the truth.” Children should not feel they have choices in this matter. Children are not intellectually ready to deal with situational ethics, which teaches: “You tell the truth when it’s convenient, but choose to lie when it’s not.” They’ll get enough exposure to this kind of thinking in high school and college. When your child knows what you expect, he’s likely to deliver.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

Forum is always convenient because you can ask for help, and someone will always give advice for you. In any case, if this does not help you, you at least have the moral support. Always correct your child for lying. Don’t let him think he’s getting away with it. Confront him and let him know you are disappointed. A child with a conscience will punish himself by feeling remorseful. Any further punishment would depend on each circumstance. Any natural or logical consequences should be allowed to take place. Occasional lying will happen, but habitual lying needs to receive counseling to uncover the cause.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

I always like to help people, if I have something to say. And it is really good, when I know about something enough. When teaching honesty to kids, talk about how important “the truth” is every chance you get. Don’t wait until you are in the middle of a situation when what you say may be taken as preaching. Comment on broader topics, such as truth in print and advertisements, how truth keeps life simple (lies to cover lies), and how the truth always comes out in the end. Current events and family happenings can be analyzed from the standpoint of honesty.

No votes yet

493

Glades
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:01
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

There are a lot of information about it on the Internet. But you made the right choice when began to look for help in your question among the guys here. Talk about how truthful people are respected. Have a look at honesty themes in literature, such as “crying wolf.” Children are delightfully honest, but sometimes at the wrong moments: “Aunt Nancy, your breath stinks” or “You really are ugly.” Part of teaching honesty to kids is them learning that if the truth hurts someone’s feelings, it is not necessary to say anything. “Sometimes it’s best to keep thoughts to yourself.”

No votes yet

708

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

The best way to find a solution to any problem - fully explore it. It is really good way to deal with everything! While you don’t want to squelch the candor and honesty of children, you do want to teach them to consider others’ feelings. Remember Thumper’s line from Bambi, “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” “Maybe you just wanted the toy so much that you imagined that Andrew gave it to you. Shall we call him and check?” This gives your youngster a chance to come clean, or maybe Andrew did give it to him.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

Try to learn more about it, or maybe you can even find the right book. I can just tell things that I know, maybe it will help. You need to play detective and help him uncover the truth, for you and for him. Young children can talk themselves into believing a pretend story if it satisfies their desires. Once a child reaches the age of seven he is better able to understand the difference between pretending and telling pretend stories that are intended to deceive. Sometimes you know that your child has lied to you, and you want to turn a negative experience into a moral lesson.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

You can find what you are looking for with the help of Google or the library. But I will also tell you what I know about it. If you create an atmosphere in your home and an attitude within your child that honesty is the best policy, and the child’s truthful self is really the nicest person to be around, you are well on your way to building trust and avoiding dishonesty. Make clear lying is wrong, and why. Kids want to please their parents, and often lie because they don't want to disappoint them. By telling them upfront that you expect honest answers and that the truth is what really makes a mom or dad happy, you can teach a young child that honesty really is the best policy.

No votes yet

493

Mike24
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 02:17
Honesty, honesty and honesty again.

Being honest means choosing not to lie, steal, cheat, or deceive in any way. When we are honest, we build strength of character that will allow us to be of great service to God and to others. We are blessed with peace of mind and self-respect and will be trusted by the Lord and others. onnections are made between people who trust each other. Without honesty, no one would get anything done because they would always be looking over their shoulder at the people around them. Honesty creates teamwork and teams get more work done than an individual. At what price will you sell your integrity over a lie?

No votes yet

493

Pages