Forum topic

38 posts / 0 new
Last post
Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

I started the thread about the problems in relationships with my boyfriend. I don’t know if it is high time for us to break up. I don’t know what he feels but something inside me says that a little time will pass and I will break with him. I feel like he is not the one with whom I would like to have family and live till the death. But my boyfriend is very sensitive and I am afraid that he thinks differently and loves me. So I don’t know how to break with him so that he didn’t kill himself and understood me right. So can you help friends? I need your help!

No votes yet
Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

Not always things that you can hear from other people can be really useful and necessary. But in any case, sometimes we just do not have another choice. We all know breaking up is hard to do. But unless you're in one of the few teen romances turned happily-ever-after, breaking up is an unavoidable part of life. And while it's up to you to decide what your individual break up style is, if you want to avoid future bad relationship karma, you'll adopt a few breakup basics. Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries at all costs.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

You should always remember that other people's opinions may not always be helpful. So, you should also look for information, and everything you need by yourself. Do you really want your ex remembering your insensitivity every time that day rolls around? No you don't. Statistics show that most students break up during summer break. For everyone else, Monday seems to be the most popular day of the week for breaking up. Pick an appropriate place. The less public, the better. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end isn't going to feel especially vulnerable.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

You should try to look for yourself everything that can help you cope with your curiosity about something. In any case, you can always find literature about this, or simply use the Internet. Do it in person. If the relationship is relatively new, maybe you can get away with breaking up over the phone. Maybe. But come on, if you've been out on more than a handful of dates, isn't that kind of harsh? Do the right thing and end the relationship in person. Having one final talk together is a good way to bring closure to the relationship. As painful as it may be, a relationship-ending conversation might enable you to learn something about yourself and set the stage for something better in the future.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

I would also like to ask my friends when they need an answer to any question. Even if it is really a serious question, I'll ask my friends because I believe to them by all my heart. Don't lie. You may try to be sparing their feelings, but it will blow up in your face when you're caught. You will be considered untrustworthy, and your reputation will falter. Your friends might back you up, but that doesn't mean the rest of the world will. Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

Only your friends can always give you advice or help with knowledge about anything. Other people will not help you learn something new. To be honest, we live in a very cruel world. So, I'll say something. Be honest but sensitive. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding him/her attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with the relationship. There's no point being negative. Try to exit with as much decorum as possible. Even if there's bad blood, always take the high road. You'll be glad you did.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

It's always a pleasure to help someone. So, I'll say what I know with great pleasure. Maybe I do not know as much as I'd like. But in any case, I hope I can tell you something useful. Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the break up: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate. Don't react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, or cry. But it doesn't mean you should react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the status of being the dumper. If their tantrum escalates, get out of there!

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

I hope that I can really say something useful for you. I do not know much about it, but in any case, it's our life. Our world does not have people who know everything about everything. So, each time we get something new for us. Don't wait around for the messy aftermath. Only try to ignore when the conversation is yelling and screaming, try to be and remain civil in all other situations. Be honest and sensitive and try to listen to their emotions and act upon them. The longer the relationship lasts, the harder the breakup is, so don't put it off for long or don't put it off at all.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

I can not say too much about it because I'm not experienced this much in my life. But in any case, I have some thoughts. Consider what things will be like two weeks, or a month from now. It may seem hard to break up today, but if you will be happier in the future then ending it is the best scenario. The same goes for the reverse; breaking up with someone in a fit of rage could be something you regret two weeks or a month down the road. Never break up with them and simply walk away without letting them speak. Give them the chance to talk, if they have anything to say, but if they don't, that would be your cue to leave. Never run away though!

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

Very interesting. Of course, I do not think that my thoughts can really tell a lot for you, but in any case, maybe it will be useful to you. Make sure that you are making the right decision. Because one day, they might not want to get back together depending on their personality. If she/he doesn't talk to you for a while, it means that they want time and need some space after the breakup. It doesn't necessarily mean he/she hates you, so don't be hard on yourself. Take his and your feelings into consideration. If you feel breaking up is best for you do it. But do it nicely.

No votes yet

658

Funnybunny
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 10/17/2016 - 01:52
How to break up with him?

Well, I'm happy to share what has got into my head throughout my whole life. And I really believe that we can tell each other some useful things to get better in many situations of our lives. Don't tell other people about it until after. You wouldn't want the rumor to spread. Lastly, ask yourself this question. Would you be happier if you aren't together anymore? Never say "I'm dumping you" or "It's over." Let it down more lightly by saying "I think it would be best if we weren't together anymore." If you have seen them do something horrible in front of you, don't listen to their lies.

No votes yet

658

Pages