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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

I want to have children and I am ready to start the process, but my partner does not. He also wants us to become parents, but he has so many doubts. I am sure he will be loving and wonderful father, but he does not believe. How to convince him to believe in his forces?

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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

It is a normal thing to have doubts and fears, so you should talk more with your partner showing him your support and understanding, but without pressure. He will forget about fears soon with your help.

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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

You can talk and discuss everything with your partner trying to change his mind and to make him forget about all doubts, feeling your support, but it is impossible to make him agree if he is not ready now. So try to understand are there just doubts, which are normal or willing to set aside the realization of your plan.

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Romeo
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think there is no need to convince him. it is the process determined by nature and it will be difficult for him to act against the nature. MAybe on some mental level he understands that it will be good to become a father but in reality he is not ready. Just give him time and than the moment will come when you will have no need to convince him.

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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

I am afraid it can take too much time for him to understand that it is a right moment and it is time for us to become parents. I know there is no sense in pressure and I try not to make it, but I am afraid of loosing too much time...

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Cock
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How to convince my partner

Talk with your partner.Do so,that he dioesn't worry about it.I think that not only he has these doubts because you are too,aren't you?And I think this is normal,every doubt,whether will be a good father, will replace the mother for the child,whether will be able to provide and many other doubts

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Don Adriano
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How to convince my partner

You can't nd you shouldn't convince him. It must be his decision, he must be sure, he must be confident. if he is not ready don't be a hurry. your time will come a bit later

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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

You can use many different ways to do this. For example, you can show him all happy families with children. And you'll show him this, that he should not worry about anything! He should be calm. and all will be well! Perhaps he is afraid to get too much responsibility. All this happens from time to time. Furthermore, we man. For us it is much more difficult than for women. But in any case, we can be better parents to our children! So you have to try anyway! Home shows that all is normal. And many people have children. They cope with them is always very good! :)

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Funnybunny
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How to convince my partner

Well, as always, you have to use psychology. You can take your partner and go to a family psychologist. He will help to solve your problem with it. And maybe your partner will understand that the child will not bring problems in your family. The baby will bring joy in your relationship! So, it's really good! Just some of us are really afraid from time to time. And very often when we are afraid, we do not know the reason for our fear. The same thing can happen with your partner today. So, you should not get upset. Just try to work on it! B)

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Pablo
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How to convince my partner

What a tough position you are in, but you can not hold it against him, you knew what you were getting when you married him. I do not say this to be cruel, but so that you do not blame him. You can't convince people to make such life altering decisions.It would be great if he were to say yes, but even if he does at this point I think down the road he will struggle & it will show in your marriage. My philosophy is one NO & 1 YES = a NO. When it comes to an innocent child both people must be on board.I think you need to decide what you want more at this point: a child or your husband.

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Armando
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don't think that he doubts in his forces.. he is just not ready to accept even a thought to be a dad. It is not his time and you can do nothing with it. There is some ind of biological clock and when it will be his time to become a dad he will. Your words are just in vain. It is serious step to become parents and I suggest you to wait or to find the one who is ready already.

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