i think that you dont have to convince your partner, he has to take up this decision on his own you can inly help him to do it.talking about me i wasnt against the child but it thought that it was too early to have the child and i thought that i wasnt ready for the child. but when we started talking about it i realised that i am ready, yes i was afraid of it because it is very serious step and i didnt know what expect from it. but when i saw all these happy people i understood that i can cope with all the difficulties in order to make my partner happy.
I think that there is no way of convincing your partner, it is only he, who can convince himself. It is normal that he has such type of fear, probably he is not ready to carry the responsibility of having a child, or maybe he is afraid that he will not manage to become a good father. Every person needs time for consideration, just give him some time to think everything over. I believe that in future he will change his point of view concerning parenting, because it is real happiness in life. He must come to making such decision by himself.
Think that you can use many different ways to do this. For example, you can show him all happy families with children. And you'll show him this, that he should not worry about anything! He should be calm. and all will be well! Perhaps he is afraid to get too much responsibility. All this happens from time to time. Furthermore, we man. For us it is much more difficult than for women. But in any case, we can be better parents to our children! So you have to try anyway! Home shows that all is normal. And many people have children. They cope with them is always very good
i think that you have to talk to him about it. you need to know why he is afraid of being the child, or what doubts he has concerning this important step of your life. you have to know everything really very good. if he worries because of something then helph him to solve this problem and convince that you always will be together with him and everything will be alright.having the child is very serious step if he still will have doubts then do not hurry up, try to wait a bit.
As for me i think that you dont have to convince your partner, he has to take up this decision on his own you can inly help him to do it.talking about me i wasnt against the child but it thought that it was too early to have the child and i thought that i wasnt ready for the child. but when we started talking about it i realised that i am ready, yes i was afraid of it because it is very serious step and i didnt know what expect from it. but when i saw all these happy people i understood that i can cope with all the difficulties in order to make my partner happy.
Kenny, you don't have to convince him in having a baby at this period of his life, especially if he doubts. He should decide whether he wants it or not by himself. If you really believe that he may be good father to your future children, then he definitely will choose your plans, but later.
It's a serious topic,because it suppose to be approached with maximum care and attention.If you are not sure in your partner's desires,but still want to have a baby-change the partner or have it alone,believe me,it will be better for a kid.You can't convince a man in something,he totally won't see nothing interesting in for himself.If you see a possibility of him switching his mind-don't push it,take it nice and slow,give him some time.Of course,the best way to have a kid is to be willing this to happen with all your heart along with your partner.
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nowadays i see that it is very popular problem. and i think that it really makes the life harder, because many happy couples ruin because of it.i think that at first you have to tal to him. if you will show him how much you want the child i think that he will definitely want it either, if he really loves you. but there are many cases that it does not help then you have to know what stops him from having the child. he definitely has to have some reasons and you have to know them. because you may solve these problems and everything will be alright.
Before many men, this problem arises. Once you and your man discussed the possibility of the child's birth, and he even wanted a son or daughter. And now, being married a few years, when the woman is ready to devote himself to the little man, her choice is a lot of reasons why it should not do. The most popular excuses are financial instability and a sense of being unprepared for such a responsible role as a father. This is a fairly common way to abandon the child, simply because one of the two partners must stay with the child, and the second is to have to provide family.
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