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Don Adriano
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How to Discuss Sex with Your Child

No matter if Your sexually active children or not, they need help to get some idea about sex. Talking about sex does not imply the fact that children will become sexually active. Some studies show that open and honest conversation about sex can prevent teenage pregnancy. How much of Your conversation will be open and honest, largely depends on what your relationship with the child.
The best time to start a conversation about sex when your child is in elementary school. A good way to start a conversation is to admit that talking about sex can be difficult and awkward, but your child should not be afraid to ask questions. Discussion of sexual relationships and sexuality with a child is not a one time discussion. As they Mature the child had questions about sexuality and sexual life. The more You tell and explain to your child, the better he will be prepared for sexual life and will be able to make responsible decisions.

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How to Discuss Sex with Your Child

During the early grade-school years, children's natural interest in their own bodies starts to give way — at least some of the time — to an increasingly compelling interest in their social world. They're busy trying to make and keep friends and develop their social and physical skills on the playground and ball field. Their interest in sex at this age can vary widely. It's not easy to keep from cringing when your child asks you what a "boner" is. Just do your best to speak calmly, so you can respect your child's natural curiosity without being judgmental.

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How to Discuss Sex with Your Child

Talk about sex more than once. It's best if kids hear small doses about sex over and over. Having one "sex talk" might be a convenient way for a parent to "get it over with" but it conveys that there is something embarrassing about sex, and doesn't provide for openings in communication later.Tell your child about the names of their sexual body parts, saying "That's your penis" or "That part is your vulva." (Avoid using nicknames like "peepee" or even "privates" as they convey that the real name is "embarrassing" or "naughty".) Start as early as when they are tots. This is when they're learning about all parts of their body. Talk to them when they are showing interest in their own body, or playing (e.g. masturbating) with showing those things to you. It's totally normal.

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Understand your child probably knows more than you think. Many parents underestimate how much information children absorb, even at a young age, about sex and reproduction. Try to maintain a calm demeanor each time you have a discussion with your child and do not react with anger, shock, or surprise if your child reveals they already know some aspects of the topic.If your child takes a sex ed course at school, try and figure out what is covered. You can look over the material your child brings home, but it might be better to speak to the teacher directly and ask him for a syllabus or lesson plan.

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I think everything depends on the child's age. If a 3-year-old child asks you where kids appear from, the only thing you need to do is not to lie. But telling the whole truth is also too much in such age. It is enough to say that children appear when two adult (it is necessary to ascent that only adults are able to have children) people deeply fall in love with each other. Later, in the age of 7-10, you can add that they become close physically, and as for teenager 0f 13-15? he or she shoud know how male and female reproductive organs are called, how they work and what contraception is

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Don Adriano
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Honestly I have no idea how to comment this topic, because i have not faced things connected with sex before, so i do not know how to tell my future children what is sex and how all of us were done and born. I suggest that the first step should be done by children, if they are really interested in getting more useful information, they will definitely ask you, firstly, rather than search information the internet. So, if they will one day ask one day what is sex, i must be like forced to make them watch video lesson and after the reaction of their, think about continuing the communication.

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I think that talk to your elementary child about crushes. Listen for when they talk about kids hugging or kissing on the playground, and when you hear it, take the opportunity to find out if there's anyone they like. Have they ever kissed anyone? At around age ten is the first stage of sexual awareness for children. They notice that it feels good to touch themselves. This is an important stage for later sexual health and identity. Never shame your child for their natural tendencies, as this is a natural part of healthy sexual development. If your child starts discussing other people's sexual body parts feel free to correct them gently.

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Don Adriano
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You know she can tell you about it without having you get embarrassed or weepy on her. You might want to start this conversation off with a casual question or remark: "Do you know if any of the older girls at school have started their periods yet?" Or: "You know, when I was your age, I didn't understand about periods and I felt too embarrassed to ask anybody." Another useful approach for a child who's reached the age of 10 or so is to give her a good, readable kids' book on puberty and sexual development. Before buying, look it over yourself to make sure you like its approach.

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Don Adriano
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In any case, don't be surprised if she suddenly changes the subject, walks away, or acts as though she hasn't heard a word you've said. She heard you. She just needs time to let it sink in. Earlier than you probably think. Girls now commonly start their periods as early as fifth grade, so even if your daughter looks as though she's nowhere near puberty, her schoolmates' accounts may confuse and upset her if you haven't given her the basic information first. She needs two things from you: first, the physical details of menstruation, and second, the security that when her period does begin.

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In my opinion you should keep in mind that your child will, if you start late (6 onwards is a good indicative), most likely know more than they let on about sex. In these days, kids often know more about sex than the parents realize.Talk about sex more than once. It's best if kids hear small doses about sex over and over.

Having one "sex talk" might be a convenient way for a parent to "get it over with" but it conveys that there is something embarrassing about sex, and doesn't provide for openings in communication later.

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