Great question))) well it depends on different couples, you know. As for me and my partner, I may say that the most usable sweet name is honey and sweetheart. It is simple, tough we do like it a lot. Once we had a serious talk about that and almost quarreled. Cause I got an idea to imagine some special names as goldfish or my rabbit. Well, I may say, that my idea was not met with happiness. he started laughing and became red, then angry and at last silent. strange reaction, though I understood everything. He said it was stupid and we started to do what we did before)))
You know we try not to use sweet names as we are adult people and what is the reason too call your partner in other way? I can call him honey just once a month to be sure that our relations are still in the process, that is it. I have never even thought about sweet names. Like for me it is kinda nasty to call him my bear or kitty, because we are gays , but still we are men, that is the difference. I do not mean that other gays are like soft balls, but the thing is that we still need to be strong and have well-developed self control. That is why i suggest that there is no need to call him kitty or puppy.
I understand people who come up with nice names for their partner, but I really do not like it. Moreover, it makes me very annoyed to be called so. I'm happy with my name and when someone calls me "dear", "honey" or something like that, it seems to me that a person simply forgot my name. Especially in public places, this all looks at least strange. I once was dating a guy who loved such things. He called me sweet names and I was nervous every time this happened. In turn, it was very difficult for me to say such things in response that he was very irritated
good evening. I dont like all these sweety names as baby, kitten, lover, dear. No, it is not about us. We have got special relationship, which people can't understabd. They try to teach us, how it should be, how we should name each other and so on. Don't you care? It is our deal. Don't you agree with me? I can only name his name with sweetenes, but nothing more. Same thing with him to name me.
You know I usually try to use as many sweet words to my partner as i can. I think it's so romantic! Besides, I think he gets a lot of pleasure when he feels that I love him ... It's reciprocity . We call each other different words, but they are full of romance and a sense that we put in our hearts! I have heard that many couples do it. But some guys do not like it when someone calls their sweet words.
Have you heard anything about these guys? It was strange for me. Because I think that everyone wants to be loved ... And each of us wants to love someone who truly deserves our love.
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