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Nill
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How to find out?

This question disturbs me much!
I don't know how to discover for myself when to create my own family and when to become a dad..
How is it with you?

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Don
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How to find out?

You are the only one who can understand it. You should listen to your heart, try to think with your own mind also, without anyone's pressure, to analize your feelings and emotions, your thoughts and wishes.

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Nill
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How to find out?

i think it is easy, you are like a person should feel yourself and should understand yourself whether you want to become a father or you don't. you should know it and no one else can say it to you. it is your feelings and your acceptance of reality, your realizing of future. Your dreams and your life and only you can give yourself an answer weather you are ready or not. if you have doubts you are not ready.

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Lanny
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you will understand when you will be ready. i agree with a fact that when you have doubts you are not ready and it is not a right time for creation a family and having children. Just enjoy your freedom now and when the come time you will understand it. Don't worry that now you are alone and some of your friends are not. i know a lot of guys are worrying about that. But all of us have own way and own time for everything to happen.

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Birdman
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what do you mean? All have this inner confidence at different age and there is no some particular date or age when you will be ready.
When you will have good and beloved person by your side when you will be sure that financially you will be able to provide a child with all needed things, when love will live in your hearts and your house... think it is main markers.

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Billy-Bob
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i think it will happend and that's all. you don't need to find exact day and time, it will come and you will understand. when to get a baby you will discuss with your partner, it's easier to plane. i tihnk you just have to dream, and everything els will come

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Nill
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do you have a partner? Do you have the one who is ready to create a family with you? it is very important aspect to have help and beloved one by your side. And of course it is important to have desire to become parent.

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Lanny
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For you it can be differently if to compare with someone else. Think at first it is needed to have a reliable partner with whom you will have common desire to create family. Don't want to talk about money but still it is important. It is important to have place of living for your family and together with this you should have ability to provide your family with everything needed. And your own desire is also important. If you have all these things you can think about the family creation.

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Nill
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I think talking about the "if we get married," or "if we have kids" thing with partners is totally normal, but once you can say, "when we buy that house on the lake after our second child is born," you've totally just entered marriage territory.You both think the GOP is the pits, the nation is doomed, and that nothing makes a day better quite like Googling photos of baby animals. Only he sends you environmentalist petitions and you send him Planned Parenthood emails. You prefer puppies and he prefers kittens. See? Different, but the same.You don't want to change him, but you also understand that you both need to evolve in some way to meet each other’s specific needs. Yes, it would be awesome if he understood that putting water in the dish soap dilutes its antibacterial strength, but no, you are not going to get him to be an extrovert. And you wouldn't want to try.

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Richard
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You are ready for parenting when you are ready to be responsible. At first you should be responsible for yourself. And when yoou cope with it, you should ask yourself whether you are ready (physically, morally, financially) to be responsible for somebody else. If yes, then start your way to it. A father is an example first of all, and before having a child you should become that person you want your child to follow. If you have bad habits, get rid of them, if you want to be educated (and you want your child to be educated too), fill the gaps in knowledge.

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Nill
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I think there is no specific age for parenting. When you feel like you want to have a child - go for it! Of course there will be some doubts, you may think that you don't know anything about parenting and so on, BUT listen to your heart! Because everything comes with practice, with time. And when you take little hand in yours, you will forget about everything else. you will be happy and that's all you need. Don't wait some special age, don't waste time on doubts and negative thoughts. Just do it!And there is so much information, you always can ask your parents about childcare, you can search in the internet or you can go to pediatrician.

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