To know your inner self is to know your purpose, your values, your visions, your motivations, your goals and your beliefs. Not as what you have been told by others, but what you have discovered for yourself. Knowing your inner self requires a high level of introspection and self-awareness. If you have clarity to at least half of what is listed above, you probably hold quite a high level of self-awareness. At the same time, the process of discovery never ends – it’s a life-long journey. The same rules apply to a family. You have just to feel when you're really ready to create it.
I think that the decision to become a father does not depend on your age or the marital status. It is just the inner feeling when you want to become responsible not only for yourself, but for somebody else, give your child love, tenderness, care and support. Just be confident with yourself, listen to your heart. If you have some sort of hesitation concerning becoming a dad, then the time has not come yet, you should find out what things are important for you on this stage of life: your personal freedom or parenthood, which is quite difficult. You know, they say that parenthood is a choice you make everyday to put someone else's happiness and well-being ahead of your own.
To tell the truth i think that for you it can be differently if to compare with someone else. Think at first it is needed to have a reliable partner with whom you will have common desire to create family. Don't want to talk about money but still it is important. It is important to have place of living for your family and together with this you should have ability to provide your family with everything needed. And your own desire is also important. If you have all these things you can think about the family creation.
I don't know what to answer on your question, because I think that every person should feel it by yourself. There are no standard tips or rules how to decide whether you are ready for being a father, or you are just on your way to this serious step of your life. I am not ready yet.
Its difficult question. It is differs from individual persons. In my friends its was when they started talked about children. Not always young people ready for such big responsibility as a child. The reasons may be different: the lack of funds, living conditions or career development. It also happens that a man, himself in soul a child and not ready to compromise on their freedom and fun. But if he hints that he would like to have children, then he potentially sees his partner's father and homemaker :cheer:
It is a very serious question-when is the right moment?Am I ready?Will I be a great father,or I will fail?It's the biggest responsibility of any possible,so you really have to think hard on this one.How to know it?Well,you have to just feel it,the moment you realise,that there's something more in you and you want to share it with a little human being.It is not any less important who is that man,you want to have a kid with-is he your true one,do you really love him?Cause if something goes wrong between you two,think about the kid-what will happen to him?
I think that for you it can be differently if to compare with someone else. Think at first it is needed to have a reliable partner with whom you will have common desire to create family. Don't want to talk about money but still it is important.
It is important to have place of living for your family and together with this you should have ability to provide your family with everything needed. And your own desire is also important. If you have all these things you can think about the family creation.
To tell the truth I think there is no specific age for parenting. When you feel like you want to have a child - go for it! Of course there will be some doubts, you may think that you don't know anything about parenting and so on, BUT listen to your heart!
Because everything comes with practice, with time. And when you take little hand in yours, you will forget about everything else. you will be happy and that's all you need. Don't wait some special age, don't waste time on doubts and negative thoughts. Just do it!And there is so much information, you always can ask your parents about childcare, you can search in the internet or you can go to pediatrician.
I think that you are ready for parenting when you are ready to be responsible. At first you should be responsible for yourself. And when yoou cope with it, you should ask yourself whether you are ready (physically, morally, financially) to be responsible for somebody else.
If yes, then start your way to it. A father is an example first of all, and before having a child you should become that person you want your child to follow. If you have bad habits, get rid of them, if you want to be educated (and you want your child to be educated too), fill the gaps in knowledge.
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