i remember all my partner and those who has not became partner, which whom i was try to build relations. i have a good memory ;)
i have 3, with last one we have been together already 3 years, love each other, hope we will be together for ever :cheer:
I think we need to wait for one single person in our life.We must always wait and not waste your feelings on other people when they do not deserve it,it is my opinion :P
I think the number depends on what you think average is. I know some people who save themselves for marriage and that's the only lover they ever have. Others jump in and out of bed with whoever looks good at the time. I don't know.
I am young and I had only one man. But I had sex with women. Pretty many times for gay, but I don`t regret it`s all about experience. I think if you want to have many partners you can. But think about your future husband and imagine how you will explain him why you had so many sex with people..or imagine how you will lie.
It's just that they would have invested too much of their emotions into other people. In a monogamous relationship, I want to be his only lover. It doesn't help when he's thinking about his past hook-ups. I mean, everyone has their tastes. Some people prefer guys who are experienced with relationships. Some people would desire a guy who knows how to "get around." But I would prefer to have a relationship with a guy I know I could completely trust and love. I'm not saying that a guy who has slept with 80 other guys isn't capable of having a healthy monogamous relationship. It's just that I'd rather have a lover who is "pure" in the sense of having emotions only for me.
On a forum like this, who cares, it's a subjective issue, if you think 8 is too many, thats cool, if another guys thinks 80 is fine, whatever works for that person, where you 'fit in' is irrelevant, just be comfortable with yourself and your boundaries. Me, not many, but in some ways I would like to be able to let go and have more fun, but I am just not wired that way. I am also envious of my partnered friends who get to have sex loads (and enjoy it) as they are in a relationship, they dont get judged but if you're single and like to play, it's another game altogether!
You know it's funny that some people say that those that have slept with less partners are less experienced to have the best sex possible.
I have only been with 3 partners in my life. Surely being in a long term relationship and learning what works best through communicating would make you a better lover as opposed to a quick one night.
You could sleep with a thousand people but that doesn't make you an expert.
I think that people should try to build relationships with different partners, because we can't say for sure whether your current partner is the person of our life. That's why you shouldn't be afraid of try. But it doesn't mean that you must fuck every person you like, it is wrong way.
I don't know about you,but as for me,I don't know how is it possible to forget even one of your partners?They were all unique,just like every human being is,and all of them left some part of themselves in me.I'm talking about soul,even when it was just sex.We all share our everything,when we're in bed together,especially for the first time...I haven't had that many partners,I think-there was 16 of them-but I've learned something from every one of them.And finally,I've found my soulmate,my best half,my best partner in everything-my dear Steven is right beside me.
You know I think the number depends on what you think average is. I know some people who save themselves for marriage and that's the only lover they ever have. Others jump in and out of bed with whoever looks good at the time. I don't know. I am young and I had only one man. But I had sex with women. Pretty many times for gay, but I don`t regret it`s all about experience. I think if you want to have many partners you can. But think about your future husband and imagine how you will explain him why you had so many sex with people..or imagine how you will lie.
I absolutely do not blame people who have different connections and can not deal with one person for a long time. It is Ok. You are young and you can do everything you want. I do not belong to such people. It seems to me to be wrong and uninteresting when you spend yourself on people whom in the end you can not even remember in the future. When I realize that a person needs me only for a couple of evenings, I try to politely explain to him my point of view and not continue our communication as a couple. I had only one true partner, and a few more people before him, relations with whom we have not been adjusted.
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