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Vincent
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:02
How to raise a confident and successful child

Hello everybody! Today, just a wonderful day to talk to some sensitive issues for us. First of all, I want to talk to you about the problem of the education of our children. What do you think about the opportunity to raise a child correctly? I want to know your thoughts about the possibility to grow confident child with the opportunity to become a full member of our society. I'm sure it can be quite difficult. But in any case, I also sure that each of us has something that he can advise on this. Each of us has certain views on the opportunity to bring up a really good kid. But the main question is how.

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 3 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:03
How to raise a confident and successful child

Excessive demands and high expectations of the adults are able to create an inferiority complex in a child of any age. As a result, children are simply resign themselves to a constant frustration mom and dad and subconsciously try to protect yourself from these emotions in the simplest way - avoiding action: it is so the risk to make a mistake almost disappears. Confidence in you "grow" out of a sense of security: if the kid knows that in a difficult time parents come to help, it will be not difficult to learn to believe for him in his own power.

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 4 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:02
How to raise a confident and successful child

A parent who is afraid of everything (problems, failures, conviction), is unlikely to grow self-confident person. The baby absorbs our anxiety, like a sponge, and then have to change attitudes towards themselves and the world and to learn to get out of life now, not darkened by anxieties pleasure. Does not work? Go to the psychologist: it's time to breathe deeply and to transfer their confidence to the child. We must understand that our child will become a mirror of our world. He will repeat everything behind us. And if we want to grow really good and successful child in his future, we must get rid of our own problems.

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Frank
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 15:20
How to raise a confident and successful child

All children are extremely sensitive to parents' statements like, "Look how well done Helen and she an excellent student, and she is engaged in music, and she helps her mother." The child hears something like: "You'll never be as successful." Comparing it with others, you firstly put into question its uniqueness, and secondly, makes it clear that other children like you a lot more. Constant comparison form in children the fear of "not being good enough", which remains with them forever. All his life he will try to be "better than", and there is always someone more successful and talented.

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Milton
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
How to raise a confident and successful child

Truly confident people do not look at other people's achievements, and based solely on their desires and capabilities. If any undertaking your child you react phrase: "It will not work" or "Something went very badly", - about any success, even can not speak. Of course, you want to save it from failure and disappointment, but let's allow your children to try their hand as they think themselves right. Yes, not all children will become great artists, but if the son wants to draw, just support him in this endeavor. Any parents should support their child throughout.

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Johnson
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:04
How to raise a confident and successful child

Your child will really put big goals when he will be ready for it. Now let him try something that is interesting to him. "If you want, let's try it", "I believe in you" - that's what they hear from the mom and dad kids who then grow self-confident people. I am sure that the right support from the parents is really important for every child. Just because we are the closest people to our child. He has full confidence in our words about everything. It is very important to get our support for him. I think that if we keep this in mind, we will be able to grow a successful and self-confident personality.

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Ismual
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How to raise a confident and successful child

Parents who with maniacal precision are ready to transfer their children to mistakes and sins, believe that they are acting strictly within the interest of the child. But in reality they just amuse your ego and nurture in the child a sense of guilt for the endless failures. Children who have had "Lack of praise" as adults, begin to literally chase the praise rather than receiving them, feel very insecure. Learn to understand and sensibly assess opportunities and, most importantly, the needs of your child - and then the reasons for the accusations would be less, and the reasons for pride and praise much more.

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Ivaniko
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
How to raise a confident and successful child

Self-confidence is inextricably linked with love. If you show it to the child, thereby telling him that he is someone very important and worthy of love. So the kid is learning to love yourself, to accept and approve of some of his features. Also thanks to this toddler feels safe in this world. This feeling allows him not to be afraid of new challenges (for example, take the first step, learn to ride a bike, and so on). Love for a child you can (and should!) demonstrate in a variety of ways. Not to tell how much you love your crumbs need gentle gestures, hugs, cooperative games and mischief.

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Alfronto
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
How to raise a confident and successful child

Amuse your little one, and let him make you smile, tell funny stories, grimacing. And you'll be even closer to each other. Do not leave without attention to the crying baby, always come to the rescue in difficult situations. A child who can always count on you, feels more confident and safer. He finds it easier take on new tasks, because he knows that in case of failure, you always come to the rescue: you show how to build a castle out of blocks, help solve the problem of annoying peers in the sandbox. It is really important for your child. And in this way you will have success.

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Gongorini
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
How to raise a confident and successful child

Remember that the child is looking for support not only warm words, but in a warm atmosphere. Your baby probably really like it when you hug your husband, because at this moment he feels a part of a loving family. And your house begins to be perceived as a fortress, which is always safe and comfortable. Take care of toddler safety, but do not confuse it with extreme care. You should allow your child to acquire a new experience: self-pour the juice into a cup, cycling and so on. You must not forget that your child needs to be independent in the first place.

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Ignatio
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 16:05
How to raise a confident and successful child

Give the child a chance to get acquainted with his subjects of interest and learn new skills. Because you give him to understand that you believe in him. Of course, the first attempts will not be successful, but because none of us are born with the ability to independently eat, dress or climb stairs. Everything this must be learned, and then long to hone skills. Each of us can avoid certain errors in any case. But if your child is trying to do something, it will make him stronger and more purposeful character. All this is very useful for him anyway.

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