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How to see it is high time

I have relationships with one guy for a tree years already. We are together for such a long period of time and it seems that I will never meet someone else or want someone else. But sometimes in different situation I realize that he is not that one I want to be near for the whole life. Do you understand what I mean? Did you have anything similar? Sometimes I see nothing special in our relations, sometimes we are like two different separate men in one flat ad sometimes everything is not so bad. I wonder how to understand that it is high time to break?

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How to see it is high time

It is better to calm down, listen to my thoughts about it and find something that can help you. Relationships are important – to each other, to our families, to our friends, to the people we care about. There comes a point in romantic relationships when things become serious and it becomes an actual Relationship, one where the idea of spending your life with this person and crafting your life together is a valid and understandable continuation of this relationship. When that isn’t achieved, the question becomes, ‘why not?’

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How to see it is high time

Try to think a little better about the world and everything that you meet on your way. Then you will not have the need to find answers to questions or advice on the forum. Ending a relationship is no easier with age and experience, but sometimes we become so caught in patterns and schedules, the comfortable grooves of our lives, something as disruptive and jarring as ending a relationship can seem too much effort and fuss, even when we’re not at all happy. You don’t trust each other any more. Trust is one of the most important parts of any relationship and when you lose that, it’s almost certainly time to end the relationship.

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We were created to enjoy our life and everything that happens to us in this world. So, do not think too much and seriously, when you can not find the answers. The signs your relationship has gone through this is simple – you find yourself questioning the other person’s motives, abilities and reasons all the time. Everything from why she’s acting so nice to you, to how much you trust her to take something that is important to you and respect it. If there’s mutual distrust on either side, it can lead to absolute crumbling of the relationship and the foundations it was built on, causing jealousy, anger, possessiveness and other negative feelings to leak free and poison the already tenuous relationship.

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I always like to share my opinions and thoughts. Especially when I can help someone with this. ou realize you have different values. We all have our own values that are important to us – security, freedom, a conservative family, a liberal family, an open marriage. Whatever your values are, that’s fine, but when they begin to rub uncomfortably against your significant other, it might be an early warning sign all is not right in paradise and it might be time to end the relationship. Every relationship has a process of compromise, negotiation and assimilation of your partner’s values into your life.

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Share experiences - means to help each other. This is what we can do for each other here. Sometimes values are too distinct and different to ever be reconciled without a drastic compromise that will likely cause a rift as one of you struggles against what you really want and what you’ve decided you must become in order to fulfill the other person’s needs. If this is a serious problem in your relationship, it’s best for both parties to end the relationship and move on. You no longer make plans with him or her in mind. This one ties deeply into the idea if you’ve slowly been pushing your significant other out of your life psychologically, it’s time to actually remove them.

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I hope that my opinion will help you. In addition, people who might also be reading this topic - will get very useful information. We all make plans for the future, even if they only go so far as the next few weeks or month or so, and your significant other should always be considered as a part of them, even if the plans don’t directly involve him or her. No longer making plans with your partner in mind is one of the major signs it’s time to end the relationship – if you’re not making plans with your significant other in mind, he’s no longer a big part of what you hold dear.

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How to see it is high time

You should be confident in your abilities and capabilities, then you will always be able to find what you need. In addition, it is convenient to do with the internet today, ha ha. If you’re subconsciously seeing him in a transient way, i.e. as if he’s not a permanent fixture or a solid part of your life, then you’ve already psychologically let go and are just treading water. End the relationship so both of you can move on. You no longer have any fun. Relationships are supposed to be fun, and joyous, and if you’ve lost that from the relationship, it might be time to end the relationship if you find yourself unable to retrieve and reawaken the sense of fun you no doubt once shared with your significant other.

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Try to find more about it on your own. Because when someone tells you his opinion and give advice - he interferes in your destiny. Days have become dull, every attempt at excitement or some happiness-inducing activity is met with malaise or a general distaste for something that breaks you out of your routine. Nothing kills so much as endless, anodyne routine, and that’s the same with relationships. A relationship should be responsible and grown up as well as fun, so there should always be a balancing of both sides. Being responsible and able to cut loose means you have the best of both worlds.

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Our life - a very simple thing. We just have too much fear to gain new knowledge through experiment or solve their problems without experience. If you’ve grown tired of the relationship, you’ve got to realize life is way too short to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate the same sort of fun you have, and if you’ve had this discussion more than enough times without gaining any compromise or leeway, it might be right to end the relationship. You fantasize about life with someone else. Everyone fantasizes – it’s a part of human nature, the ability to dream and creatively envision that which may or may not have been, or all that could have been, in either a positive or negative way.

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If you have the desire, you can always find a way to get what you want, or at least a small instruction for this, heh heh. You can’t see a future with him or her. The most important point of being in a relationship is the idea of creating a future together, shaping and designing your life you are actively choosing to share with your significant other. If you cannot imagine a future with this person, then it brings about the question about why you are in the relationship to begin with and why you’re choosing to remain in a situation with which you have little emotional investment.

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