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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

how did you convince your partner to have a child? Is it obligatory to convince them or you just should give each other enough time to make such serious decision. think it is should be some mutual desire but not the one when one partner forced another one to do something.

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Don Adriano
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

if you should convince him so he against, in such situation i don't think it's right to get a baby when on member is against. when he will be ready when he will want it he would say and nobody need to convince anybody

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Armando
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

from the one hand I understand it but from another one why one person have this desire and the other one for example at the same age and at the same condition, don't have it even when he is with a person who has this desire. Does it mean we are looking in different directions?

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

It is a problem, which worries me now. I want to have a child, my partner has doubts. He is not against, but he can not make a final decission, he has fears, doubts, I feel he is not ready. And I do not want to make pressure from the one hand, from the other hand I am afraid he would never understand it is time, because he is too hesitant in serious questions.

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

It is not an easy question to give any advices. You should look on a situation and understand with your heart what is better to do now. Maybe you need to wait some more time, maybe you need to talk sincerely, maybe everything is senseless and he do not want to have a child at all.

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

Sometimes time would not help and you will just waste time, understanding that you are too different and your values and plans for the future are opposite too. That is why I think it is always better to discuss such themes from the beginning and to understand in general your plans for the future. But if he just have some doubts, then you can talk to him, support him and you will solve this problem together.

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

We knew from the start that we both want to have a child, but we needed some time to make a final decission. Now you can not do anything, in your situation, except discussing and talking. You should learn your partner's attitude, opinion and to understand what he really wants, his reasons to doubt or to refuse this idea. Because no one can tell you this except him.

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King
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

do you think if you start to convince him he will agree with your opinion that it is time for a baby after a few days of conceiving? If he doesn't want to be a father at the moment than your tries to convince him will be in vain.

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

I didn't convince my partner it was a decision which we took together. like we found out both of us had desire to raise a child but during some time we didn't want to tell it to each other because we were afraid to scare each other. but we were happy to understand that it is mutual desire. Now we are waiting for our baby boy ;) ;)

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Romeo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

it is rather individual and intimate decision for each person and you can't just tell your partner that he should make some steps to become parent because you want to have a baby. There should be inner desire, there should be desire to have someone in life for whom you will take care till the end of your life. It is very important step and each of us should make this step by himself.

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Pablo
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how you convince your partner to have a baby?

I think that your partner should have his own desire to have a child. If you try to convince him somehow, or you will try to force your opinion - all this will fail. Your partner should be willing to do so. In addition, all this must be mutually! If your partner does not want to have a child, it is better not to think about it then. Or do you have to change your partner. In any case, you should talk to him about it. And then you both will be able to decide about it. I think that if your partner is serious about you, he will want to have a baby with you anyway! ;)

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