Convincing your partner in having a baby is not an easy task-especially,if he doesn't want this to happen for real at all.I mean,if he sees your willingness towards this,he just might strangle some time,tell you something unspecificated-just to keep you by his side.You can't bury your dream,because of him-so leave him,if the desire of having a baby is stronger than the affection for him.And don't push,if you see,there's actually a chance for him to go for it along with you.Either way-always think about the future baby first.
I hope my husband is as excited as I am when it’s time to try to have a baby, and I’m not planning on tricking it out of him. However, since I’m already going to Hell, I decided I’d write up a plan… My desire… TO have a child and full family) I think my husband will support me )
i think that at first you have to tal to him. if you will show him how much you want the child i think that he will definitely want it either, if he really loves you. but there are many cases that it does not help then you have to know what stops him from having the child. he definitely has to have some reasons and you have to know them. because you may solve these problems and everything will be alright. but if you see that h is sure in his decision and does not want to change anything then it may be big problem.
To tell the truth I think that your partner should have his own desire to have a child. If you try to convince him somehow, or you will try to force your opinion - all this will fail. Your partner should be willing to do so. In addition, all this must be mutually!
If your partner does not want to have a child, it is better not to think about it then. Or do you have to change your partner. In any case, you should talk to him about it. And then you both will be able to decide about it. I think that if your partner is serious about you, he will want to have a baby with you anyway!
It is unlikely to change their opinion, and it is unlikely he will have a desire to have a child - more likely, it will be exactly the opposite. Do not put ultimatums – or a child, or divorce. Because you want a baby of this man? You need not to put pressure on the partner, and gently push him to the man concluded in favor of himself wants the continuation of their kind. :huh: Should talk to your partner about his fears, his doubts.
Why doesn't he want a child? And find counterarguments. Discuss with them and their problems – why you want a baby right now - the state of health, age, family circumstances... Respect your partner: give a talk to him and listen to you.
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