Everybody once in his life has met or heard something about "love triangle". Well, at least it sounds similar to me. My brother's friend had experienced to love his classmate, while he was in love with the hottest girls in a school. So, he decided not to show his feelings. I think he should try.
Almost each person in this world experienced unmutual love. Of course it hurts. Of course it brings a lot of suffering. But that fact that our heart is not empty and we are able to love already means a lot. Whether mutual or not, love is not a curse, it is a gift and we should be grateful for it. I believe that each person in the world has his second half and if the person you love does not answer your feelings, then it is just not your person. And your person is waiting for you somewhere and it may take time for you to find each other in the big world
Yes of course you can love someone and like someone else. There are all kinds of love and different degrees of how much you will like and care for other people. The problem with guy / girl friendships I would think are that they can change into something more if indeed they are not something more already.
If you believe she fancied this guy before as against just a friendship I suppose the best thing to do is either live with it until it gets out of hand or finish with her.
Nobody owns anybody even if they are married, you cannot control things such as feelings.
My opinion is that if she loves you and is happy in your relationship its unlikely she will do anything wrong, if you are overly jealous for no reason you will scare her off. At the moment she does not see him much thats a good thing, it also entitles you to see other girls as friends and as long as nothing else changes dont worry and enjoy your life. Your feelings are normal but move on without a solid reason and focus on you both as a couple
I do not like the thing that is called love triangle or something like that. You can struggle of that thing the entire life and i cannot suggest that this the most correct way out in life. I like to have relationship with one person , because you can be sure in everything he does to you.
There is a point in his words. You both have to leave him alone. I do not thunk that he will ever change his opinion and this is why there is no sense in treating him well. If he is rude to your friend, I have no idea, why are you both still talk to him. Leave him alone. And find another man for your friend. Love is something that you can deal with, you just need to try. People say that they can not give up loving someone as this is sort of chemistry, but I think that this is lie. We can but we do not want to control our feelings. Say your closer friend to find someone else. This is not so hard, I guess.
i dont know what is bettween this boy and his lover but i think that you have to leave him alone. if he doesnt love you and doesnt want to be together with you then you will never forc him to do it. it is impossible to make other person love you. and if he will be with then it mrnas that he just uses you, nothing more. maybe if you leave him then he will understand what a great person he had lost and come back. think about it. this may be even good.
I think the best advice will be to persuade your friend to leave this person. Especially when you say that he really ask about leaving him alone. You know the best expression is: "If you really love, don't hold him". You can repeat these words to your friend.
Tell him that he will never be happy with the person who does not love him, it's masochism, he is just hurting himself with such "love". You should persuade him that he deserves better, he deserves to be loved and respected. So, let him try to find another person and start relations with him
The situation is rather difficult and specific. They say that if you really love and appreciate somebody or something, just let him go, if he comes back, he is your person, if he doesn't come back, he has never been yours. That is why I suppose that it would be wise if your friend leaves that man alone, because neccessary time will come and he will meet a person, who will really love and appreciate him. Of course, it may be difficult and your friend can feel miserable, but it is the best way out from the situation. I hope that your support will help your friend to recover.
I think this is quite a difficult situation. In addition, each of us can have something like this in his life. And I think that's the usual problems in a relationship. Of course, I heard about the problem, which could be a lot worse and worse. But in any case, I also think that it is quite difficult. Because this guy has no right to say such things to your friend. Maybe he just does not understand the words he said to a friend of yours. Because I could get a strong resentment, if I hear something like that to me. I really think your friend may have to think about his future without this guy ...
To be honest, it was really difficult for me to understand the situation fully. Also, I think it can also be difficult to give the right advice when you do not know the situation in full and all details. From time to time we may have indeed some problems in our relationship. But in any case, I believe that any problems that we have in our relationships and our lives - can make us better and stronger. I really believe in such things. In addition, I also received a lot of problems in my love ... And I began to understand many things about it.
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