Of course I can not speak and advise something really serious in this situation. But maybe I can see another interesting option to solve this problem. Did your friend just have to start all over again? I think maybe he should just forget about his failed love and leave it in his past. I also think that your friend can always find a really nice guy who will not create such problems for him. Each of us has certain weaknesses. And it's really hard for all of us to get a moral pain. I understand all of those things really well. In addition, I also think that it is better to start from the beginning.
From time to time we do not know what we must do to do the right thing. Also, I really believe that we can use the assistance of a psychologist or something like that, to find the right answers. But above all, we must listen to our hearts. I am sure that our heart can give the right answer much more than our brains. Just sometimes it's really painful to hear something like that. But I want to say that your friend should not take it too close to his heart. Did he really need to find someone who will understand his feelings and give him whatever he needs. I think it's important for him ...
I suggest that your friend just stop for a while and understand everything that was happening to him. He must understand and appreciate his life correctly. He should not do the wrong thing and make the wrong decisions now. In addition, if he continues to show his love in these ways, things can only get worse. I think you also have to help your friend, at least a little. You can support him morally. In addition, I also agree with the guys here. Your friend must forget the guy and start a brand new life. If he will try to get a new life, everything will be completely different.
I think that you friend shouldn't let him to behave like that. He should respect himself, and force him to respect him and his feelings. How he can love the one who is so rude with him? even if you don't want to be with this person it doesn't mean you should be rude with him. This guy should be honest (and it is true) but together with it he should be polite. I understand it is hard but what if he just loose time while trying to show this guy how good he is. sometimes we meet people who doesn't need our love and care and we should be ready to let these people go.
I agree that the situation is rather difficult and specific. They say that if you really love and appreciate somebody or something, just let him go, if he comes back, he is your person, if he doesn't come back, he has never been yours. That is why I suppose that it would be wise if your friend leaves that man alone, because neccessary time will come and he will meet a person, who will really love and appreciate him. Of course, it may be difficult and your friend can feel miserable, but it is the best way out from the situation. I hope that your support will help your friend to recover.
You know maybe it is really needed to leave him alone for some time? he has right to choose what and who he needs more and itis his choice and your friend should to respect this choice even if it is not the best one choice for him. Maybe when he will see that his friend left him he will understand whom he lost and will be more polite with him and will understand that he will receive nothing with this straight man.Think your friend should show himself from the other side, not like bothering guy but like understandable and supportive one.
You know maybe it is really needed to leave him alone for some time? he has right to choose what and who he needs more and itis his choice and your friend should to respect this choice even if it is not the best one choice for him.
Maybe when he will see that his friend left him he will understand whom he lost and will be more polite with him and will understand that he will receive nothing with this straight man.Think your friend should show himself from the other side, not like bothering guy but like understandable and supportive one.
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