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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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If you don`t like st in your partner

We are all not perfect,we're just humans,but we have to learn how to handle our differences wisely,if we don't want to be alone in our lives.First of all,if there's something you don't like about your partner,big or small,you can talk about it but better do it gently,don't offend him.No matter what it is,if you won't talk about it,with time it might be just unbearable to you.So,I think it's definitely would be better,if you reconcile your differences together with no harm towards each other-hey,he might have something to say to you too. ;)

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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If you don`t like st in your partner

Of course you have to tell him about all your feelings and dislikes. I believe he will be much more disappointed about it when he once gets it himself. Then you will have a great quarrel, I suppose. If this man is important to you and you love him, wants some serious relations, that it is a major task for you to acknowledge all your disappointing, you see? Truth is always better than lie. That is why I do not see any other way out, except to go and say everything straightforward to your man. Who knows, maybe your relations become even better than previously.

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Peter
Last seen: 3 years 10 months ago
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If you don`t like st in your partner

You know I think that it is worth of telling your partner about your dislikes. Of course, I agree with the fact that you should do it carefully, wothout any offences. Of course, we love people with their pluses and minuses, but, all in all, there may be habits or actions we consider to be not correct or suitable. In the past I had the same situation, my partner had the habit of laughing very loudly, if it was only at home it would be okay, but he even dared to do it in the crowded places. It made me furious, but I tried not to show it at first. Then I talked with him, I did it very carefully and in a calm manner. He understood me and got rid of that bad habit. Do not be afraid to talk, it will be a positive thing for each of you.

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Benny
Last seen: 11 months 4 weeks ago
Joined: 07/18/2016 - 14:07
well i do not think that it

well i do not think that it really shall be a big problem for you and you have to understand it. of course i think that  sometimes you do not like something in your partner but i think that it is completely normal thing but when you do not like something then i think that you shall talk with your partner about it and then you shall try to do everything in order to avoid the situation and i think that it would help you to avoid a lot of conflicts in your  couple and everything like that, of course,  you know better what i am talking about and you understand everything better but in general i think that you shall talk about everything with your partner and then you would have happy relations. 

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WilliamLewis
Last seen: 9 months 5 days ago
Joined: 09/25/2017 - 20:49
If you don`t like st in your partner

I'm a bit shocked by people who say that you need to be quiet if something in your partner does not suit you. Perhaps at the beginning of your relationship this is correct. After all, you are still little known and in fact each other. But if you are already long enough together and plan to remain a couple for a long time, then all problems should be discussed. Your partner is a person you should not be shy about. You should be comfortable together, so you need to talk about everything and find a way out together. Good relations are those relationships that are built on trust, mutual understanding and respect. You need to learn how to respect each other's opinions and resolve all issues calmly.

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Karl
Last seen: 8 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/29/2017 - 16:03
If you don`t like st in your partner

good evening guys! it is very important to tell all the truth on the beginning of your relations. don't be shy, tell him if you don't like something, because f you keep silence, but you will want to tell him after several years of relations, it can end very bad. as for me, i told my partner from the beginning what i like and what don't to not let disagreements in future make us apart. but even now i tell my boyfriend if i don't like something in his behavior, but not rude. you should say it quit and tender to let your partner understand that you still love him despite of these things, but you don't want them to be in your life.

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Floyd
Last seen: 5 months 1 week ago
Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:30
You know of course you should

You know of course you should tell him so.

There is a joke: "Each relationships come to that stage when one thinks that it is not necessary to create a positive image and it is time to behave as usually, and another one is shocked about when the one he loves became such a pig!" :cheer: And if you don't tell your partner that there is something you don't like in him, he will never stop behaving this way, because for him it is a norm. And he thinks that it is a norm for you too (because you just don't telll him that it is not. And he cannot read your thoughts to guess it

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Calvin
Last seen: 4 months 3 weeks ago
Joined: 01/31/2018 - 14:24
As for me I will tell him

As for me I will tell him everything without using a pronoun "you" not to hurt him. You probably understand that saying "I don't like when you shout on me" is not the same as "I don't like when people shout", for example.

So, it is necessary to hint on your partner's disadvantages gently if you want to keep relationships with this person. But there shouldn't be a question whether to tell or not to tell. Of course to tell, because if you don't tell your partner that you consider some his features are negative, he considers them as a norm and does not do anything to correct them.

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