To tell the truth I have never imagined someone else during my relationships with my partner. he is enough attractive and sexy for me so I do not need someone else in my bed even in my dreams and head. But I imagined us being somewhere, not at home, yes, so I use imagination from time to time, but not in such case you asked. I do not imagine anything else at all while I have sex with someone. I just enjoy the moment and everything we share together, and it is enough for me, I do not need extra fantasy to find out. It is my point of view. And I think it is right.
There were such situations during having sex in my previous relationships. I've been thinking about different people, to whom I don't feel attraction and liking in real life. As for me, imagining someone else during the sex with your partner is not so bad, but complete stay with your partner at that time is better.
YES, I did))))) well, I guess we all did so sooner or later. Nowadays this question does not appear between us, well, maybe very rarely, but still, I try to see only my love. Although earlier, not only with my today's man, I really imagined some actors on the place of the partner. It was Liam Hemthworth in most cases. Adore this blond one))) also I imagined several times Jared Leto, because can not imagine my life without his music. Well, maybe there was someone else, but I do not remember them now. Nowadays I do not do this any more)))
Yeah,I've used to do it a lot,when I was a little bit younger and had a lot of close encounters of the third kind. :) Just kitting,but on the real-not with every partner in the past I did it.The people I loved to imagine while having sex with somebody were different-from David Duchovny to Johhny Depp and Jared Leto.They're all so beautiful,right? ;) Why I'm saying that all this was in the past?Well,because now I don't have to do it and I don't want to.I have my soulmate,my true love now by my side-believe me,you won't be wanting to do that if in this situation. ;)
i am very familiar with this problem and i think that you can not do anything with it until you will change your partner. i do not think that you could be happy with the person who you do not want but really love very much. you will alway think about other people whom you will want to have sex with. and it will ruin your relations. of course itis true that you love not the person but his soul, but in this case i think that you have to love both, because the average person can not live without sex.
Thank you for this theme. because i think that it is very interesting and useful for our forum. and also i think that it is cool that we can shere such information with each other.There is a limit. You must not flirt with anyone except your friend. Thinking about stuff is one thing, but actually saying things is another. Keep your thoughts to yourself when you see other than your friend. It is normal to be attracted to more than one person, but you should only say sexy things to your boy.Also, why would you imagine other when you both are being sexual? I bet you would feel hurt if your friend was being flirty with guys and thinking about them during your time, wouldn't you?
It is very interesting and I tried to once but all I could see was this guys jacket and I thought that is so lame it's not even worth it, besides I felt more guilty than anything, oh actually there was another time as well but I was trying to think of this person for ages and it just wasn't happening so I thought maybe I shouldn't be doing that then.
I told my partner afterwards though, both times, I apologised I just wasn't sure if it was normal or not bcos u read about it in magazines that it's normal but for me it just felt wrong, I would never do it again.
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