It is always really good, when you think you're ready for a serious relationship. But in any case, you should also think about your partner. In addition, no one can give you really good advice, because no one knows the details of your personal life. I think that if you have at least some confidence in your partner - you can make an attempt to talk to him about these things. It's always really good. In addition, it is an opportunity for both of you to discover something new in your relationship. I think it always brings something good. But be careful!
Well, I also think that it is quite serious and really good solution for both of you. Of course, 4 months - it is not so much to have complete confidence in your partner. But in any case, you can always make an attempt and see what might happen next. I also think it can be useful for both of you. In addition, when you're talking with your partner about how to get a little closer, or even begin life together - you'll see his reaction. I think if he would have any doubt or anything else - you'll see it soon enough. So I think that in any case you should try to talk to your partner about it and look at the result.
To be honest, I do not think that after 4 months of relationship you already have enough experience and information about that person to make such decisions. I really do not think this is a good solution. In addition, you can meet many challenges in the next few months. I really advise you to be careful in your desire. Because after a while you can see that it really was a very serious mistake. And you're just a little off target. Believe me, it is better to wait a little and see what happens. I do not advise you to rush into such matters.
I think you have to wait a little with this. Because, I think, you just can scare your boyfriend. This may be a surprise for him. Even if he saw your serious intentions, he can think what you want is all too quickly. And it can really scare him a little. I do not think it can be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about it now. Did you have to wait a little longer. Also, I think it's better to wait a couple of months. And you also from time to time you can start a conversation with a hint of a serious relationship. Therefore now it is better not to make such sharp movements.
Maybe the other guys will blame everything that I do. But in any case I think that it should not be any serious problem. First of all, you have to listen to your heart. If your heart tells you that you should talk to your boyfriend about the relationship and the continuation of life together - you must do it. Believe me, I also have some experience in these things. And I also understand that from time to time our hearts can give us really good advice. In addition, I also think that it may be helpful for you to learn how to listen to your heart. So do not worry.
I think you have to be very careful with these things. You do not have to like something to scare your partner. In addition you also need to show your boyfriend who you are in a hurry too. Everything should be calm. You have to think really well before the conversation with your partner. Because if you have any doubts about the depth of your soul - it will not work well. Also, if you doubt that this guy could stay with you during the whole life, it is better to see how your relationship will evolve over time. I advise you not to rush into these things anyway.
Of course maybe the other guys here can begin to judge me, but in any case I advise you to do things that you think are correct. I think that this is your life. And you should not listen to advice from other guys too much. Because you have only to make the right decisions. And it all depends on you. I also think that you have to work with this issue with caution. Probably better to make a little surprise for your boyfriend. You can prepare a romantic dinner for the two of you. And then you can ask some questions about it. You will see the result.
You can always make the right decision. You just have to be guided by some of the characters that you see and feel. I think that if you have decided to raise the issue here, with us, it is really important and serious for you. That is why I also think that if you talk to your boyfriend to start a serious relationship, maybe it will be really interesting for him. And it will show your interest in sharing your happiness and love. We live a life too short to wait for something. So if you feel that this is the right guy - do not waste time. Just talk to him and explain to him what you feel ...
I think you should prepare your boyfriend to such questions. Because all of this can really be scary for him. Some guys are afraid of a serious relationship in the beginning. But in any case, it is absolutely normal for all of us. I think that now you can just talk to your boyfriend. And you can show some hints for him. If it is to understand your hints, you're also going to see his reaction. And it is much better and much easier than when you're just talking about all these things straight for him. I think that if he understood everything - you will see and draw conclusions.
I think you just have to arrange a romantic dinner and have a serious conversation with your partner. You should discuss with him some of the questions that will help you think about your immediate future. You should ask your partner about his intentions for you. If he is serious about you, whether it will make your relationship stronger and more serious? Did he agree to live together with you? I think these two questions can show you many things about your relationship where you may have some doubts before. So I think this is the best way to solve this situation.
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